Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hot women that don't respond to guys that are a challenge

Jvesti

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Does anyone believe that there are attractive women out there that just don't respond to CF/challenge/mystery a guy that is in control, just because it is a punch to her fragile bloated ego that you are not fawning over her and falling in love like all the other guys?

I believe I have met one, I was wondering if anyone else has dealt with this or have stories about these types.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bonhomme

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More like insecurity

Yes, I do think there are some women like that. Mostly the ones who simply think they're less desirable than they are.

But they're the exception, not the rule.
 

MysteryWoman

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Originally posted by Jvesti
Does anyone believe that there are attractive women out there that just don't respond to CF/challenge/mystery a guy that is in control, just because it is a punch to her fragile bloated ego that you are not fawning over her and falling in love like all the other guys?

I believe I have met one, I was wondering if anyone else has dealt with this or have stories about these types.
Basically if she doesn't respond, means she doesn't fancy you, deal with it.
 

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It doesn't really matter whether she responds or not. Your attitude should be who cares?


I think the women you're referring to instinctively know that your "challenge" is an act and not really how you feel. You'd be surprised at how good some women are at picking up on insincerity.


My advice, don't sweat it, really adopt the attitude that you don't give a shlt. Because when you have that mind set, it doesn't really matter if she digs you or not.
 
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