"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot women that don't respond to guys that are a challenge

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Jvesti

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Does anyone believe that there are attractive women out there that just don't respond to CF/challenge/mystery a guy that is in control, just because it is a punch to her fragile bloated ego that you are not fawning over her and falling in love like all the other guys?

I believe I have met one, I was wondering if anyone else has dealt with this or have stories about these types.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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More like insecurity

Yes, I do think there are some women like that. Mostly the ones who simply think they're less desirable than they are.

But they're the exception, not the rule.
 
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Originally posted by Jvesti
Does anyone believe that there are attractive women out there that just don't respond to CF/challenge/mystery a guy that is in control, just because it is a punch to her fragile bloated ego that you are not fawning over her and falling in love like all the other guys?

I believe I have met one, I was wondering if anyone else has dealt with this or have stories about these types.
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Basically if she doesn't respond, means she doesn't fancy you, deal with it.
 
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It doesn't really matter whether she responds or not. Your attitude should be who cares?


I think the women you're referring to instinctively know that your "challenge" is an act and not really how you feel. You'd be surprised at how good some women are at picking up on insincerity.


My advice, don't sweat it, really adopt the attitude that you don't give a shlt. Because when you have that mind set, it doesn't really matter if she digs you or not.
 
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