"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hot vs. Cute...advantages and disadvantages

Babnik

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Pretty much I noticed that for women....cute = long term, kiss, hold hands, etc... hot = rip clothes off.

So, I wonder...are cute man are at a BIG advantage here?

You can change your body to become HOT but you cannot change your face.

If you are hot then you are forever hot...never cute.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cod3r

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Hot pretty much comes from the 'body' IMO...

Even if you have a perfect face, you'll never reach the upper echelons of 'hottness' without a stunning body...


Just like females, a girl with a perfect face and no body... 8 or 9... never 10



-Cod3r
 

blinkwatt

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Cod3r pretty much nailed it. Think of you favorite hot chicks,I bet 99.9% have "slammin" bodies.
 

Bonhomme

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Hair style and what, if any, facial hair you have can definitely affect the way your face looks, within limitations.

On a related note, any of you guys see how Marilyn Manson looks without all his makeup? Certainly explains it ...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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