"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hot vs. Cute...advantages and disadvantages

Babnik

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Pretty much I noticed that for women....cute = long term, kiss, hold hands, etc... hot = rip clothes off.

So, I wonder...are cute man are at a BIG advantage here?

You can change your body to become HOT but you cannot change your face.

If you are hot then you are forever hot...never cute.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cod3r

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Hot pretty much comes from the 'body' IMO...

Even if you have a perfect face, you'll never reach the upper echelons of 'hottness' without a stunning body...


Just like females, a girl with a perfect face and no body... 8 or 9... never 10



-Cod3r
 

blinkwatt

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Cod3r pretty much nailed it. Think of you favorite hot chicks,I bet 99.9% have "slammin" bodies.
 

Bonhomme

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Hair style and what, if any, facial hair you have can definitely affect the way your face looks, within limitations.

On a related note, any of you guys see how Marilyn Manson looks without all his makeup? Certainly explains it ...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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