"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hot vs. Cute...advantages and disadvantages

Babnik

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Pretty much I noticed that for women....cute = long term, kiss, hold hands, etc... hot = rip clothes off.

So, I wonder...are cute man are at a BIG advantage here?

You can change your body to become HOT but you cannot change your face.

If you are hot then you are forever hot...never cute.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cod3r

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Hot pretty much comes from the 'body' IMO...

Even if you have a perfect face, you'll never reach the upper echelons of 'hottness' without a stunning body...


Just like females, a girl with a perfect face and no body... 8 or 9... never 10



-Cod3r
 

blinkwatt

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Cod3r pretty much nailed it. Think of you favorite hot chicks,I bet 99.9% have "slammin" bodies.
 

Bonhomme

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Hair style and what, if any, facial hair you have can definitely affect the way your face looks, within limitations.

On a related note, any of you guys see how Marilyn Manson looks without all his makeup? Certainly explains it ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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