TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Send her to Thegambino
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hot then cold!?
- Thread starter Murk
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Building_and_Loan
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She sounds like a nice girl.
For real though, use her for one purpose. Don't invest any emotion or much time into her at all.
Murk
Master Don Juan
No it's literally a fun/cex thing - I'm not spending much time or money on this and I am also seeing a 32 y/o beautician on Saturday who is DTF.
Funny enough my ex I broke up with a few weeks ago is reaching out to me and wanting to spend time/bang etc.
I'm embracing the abundance thing and really just having fun and not emotionally investing in anyone but myself. Last week or so I have felt like I'm getting my groove back.
Its all good.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
why would you ever reply? if you couldn't bang her when she dragged you out and got fvcked up then the odds of you banging her in any other situation is 0%, go NC forever
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
run fast and far at the first signs of addiction
if she's in control then it's fine party on
a girl who's wasted and high seems like the best possible situation to bang her in, if you couldn't bang her like that then there's no way you'd bang her in a million years.
if you miss a shot from 1 foot away, you won't make it from 100
Murk
Master Don Juan
Right so I stayed with my ex last night and all of today whilst still having this date lined up for tonight. I didn’t have time to go home and change but I’d showered and gone straight to the date with the Australian about 18:30.
Didn’t go well for my standards. During the night we arranged to meet up on Sunday (it’s friday night) do to some stuff and we are going abroad for a wedding (accommodation paid for I just have to book my flights). But I feel I’ve friendzoned myself, found it difficult to escalate with kino (did some) and genuinely found myself seeing this girl as a friend, I think because I’ve recently broke up with my ex and I spent yesterday and today with her it was hard to get my mind in the game, my heart wasn’t in it tonight and I think it showed. We split a g of coke and Uberrwd to her place and I Ubered back to mine.
She’s interested in me, but I’m not on my usual form and feel a bit jaded if I’m honest. I feel like calling her (we both did coke she will still be up left her not long ago). Just general frustration with myself, we both opened up about family stuff tonight and she was definately more flirtatious than she’s ever been, I just flopped, all sexed out from earlier today and just not hungry enough for it. Help?
Didn’t go well for my standards. During the night we arranged to meet up on Sunday (it’s friday night) do to some stuff and we are going abroad for a wedding (accommodation paid for I just have to book my flights). But I feel I’ve friendzoned myself, found it difficult to escalate with kino (did some) and genuinely found myself seeing this girl as a friend, I think because I’ve recently broke up with my ex and I spent yesterday and today with her it was hard to get my mind in the game, my heart wasn’t in it tonight and I think it showed. We split a g of coke and Uberrwd to her place and I Ubered back to mine.
She’s interested in me, but I’m not on my usual form and feel a bit jaded if I’m honest. I feel like calling her (we both did coke she will still be up left her not long ago). Just general frustration with myself, we both opened up about family stuff tonight and she was definately more flirtatious than she’s ever been, I just flopped, all sexed out from earlier today and just not hungry enough for it. Help?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
so this is why you're not supposed to try and hookup with your exes huh
Murk
Master Don Juan
Update. Aussie chick text me couple hours ago asking what I’m doing, said I’m out drinking. I left the chick I was with to go home and have decided to make a detour. They want me to bring vodka, mixer and coke. I told them I’ll bring ill some drink but if they want drugs they need to front up some cash (I’m not a *****).
I’m on my way now, fingers crossed I get to bang her. I’m gonna try to spend as little money as possible.
As an aside: I cried today during my therapy. Thought of my mum leaving me to deal with life without the answers, feelings of nobody truly having my back. I wanted to go straight home today and sleep but here I am, making stupid decisions, trying to get a bang.
I’m on my way now, fingers crossed I get to bang her. I’m gonna try to spend as little money as possible.
As an aside: I cried today during my therapy. Thought of my mum leaving me to deal with life without the answers, feelings of nobody truly having my back. I wanted to go straight home today and sleep but here I am, making stupid decisions, trying to get a bang.
Ryan Adams
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spin plates. next this one
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Don't do drugs, kids.