"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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magickarl

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SLOW JAMS??!?!?!?

Dude. I know all kinds of songs that are good for action.

The Game - Touchdown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inp19uNphxc


Kanye west ft. Twista/Jamie Foxx - Slow Jamz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sj0UM7cVyKo

Twista ft. Do or Die - Do you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Laj2unxWsIg&feature=related

T.I. - Why u wanna (sorry, could only find the remix on youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7YKbr2CeF8&feature=related

Tupac - I'd rather be ya N.I.G.G.A / Bootsy Collins - I'd rather be with you / Easy-E - I'd rather **** you / Do or Die - I'd rather pimp you


Bootsy Collins was the original, but all of these have essentially the same instrumental.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqjWnndIuJE

Chingy - One call away


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQBmDorsSwY

Twista ft. R-Kelly - So sexy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMljyeMfakY

Baby Bash - Suga Suga
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqWzWMhaKtg

Pretty Ricky - Grind on me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efDfLnKdXzg
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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piranha45

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god i hate hiphop.
 

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For some reason the song "I love college" by ashter roth is very good. I know its very bro-ish. I am not a bro, just a normal guy. But the lyrics and music video especially shows his essence. Just have "fun" and do it naturally. A lot of alpha moments. It really gets me back to the "fun" state instead of the "oh **** whats the next step to do with her?" state.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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