Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
I found this gem by Maxwell, need more.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DO605Q7cf30
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DO605Q7cf30
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hot songs...
- Thread starter Iamnotacrook
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KontrollerX
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZ3eHrvbxpQ
Here you go. :rock:
As for Maxwell "Wherever whenever" is also a good smooth flowing song from the dude.
Here you go. :rock:
As for Maxwell "Wherever whenever" is also a good smooth flowing song from the dude.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Neither of those really seem to suit my needs.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Song stuck in my head right now is Dissolved Girl by Massive Attack.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OT8QT4BEOTo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OT8QT4BEOTo
SLOW JAMS??!?!?!?
Dude. I know all kinds of songs that are good for action.
The Game - Touchdown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inp19uNphxc
Kanye west ft. Twista/Jamie Foxx - Slow Jamz
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sj0UM7cVyKo
Twista ft. Do or Die - Do you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Laj2unxWsIg&feature=related
T.I. - Why u wanna (sorry, could only find the remix on youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7YKbr2CeF8&feature=related
Tupac - I'd rather be ya N.I.G.G.A / Bootsy Collins - I'd rather be with you / Easy-E - I'd rather **** you / Do or Die - I'd rather pimp you
Bootsy Collins was the original, but all of these have essentially the same instrumental.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqjWnndIuJE
Chingy - One call away
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQBmDorsSwY
Twista ft. R-Kelly - So sexy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMljyeMfakY
Baby Bash - Suga Suga
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqWzWMhaKtg
Pretty Ricky - Grind on me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efDfLnKdXzg
Dude. I know all kinds of songs that are good for action.
The Game - Touchdown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inp19uNphxc
Kanye west ft. Twista/Jamie Foxx - Slow Jamz
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sj0UM7cVyKo
Twista ft. Do or Die - Do you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Laj2unxWsIg&feature=related
T.I. - Why u wanna (sorry, could only find the remix on youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7YKbr2CeF8&feature=related
Tupac - I'd rather be ya N.I.G.G.A / Bootsy Collins - I'd rather be with you / Easy-E - I'd rather **** you / Do or Die - I'd rather pimp you
Bootsy Collins was the original, but all of these have essentially the same instrumental.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqjWnndIuJE
Chingy - One call away
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQBmDorsSwY
Twista ft. R-Kelly - So sexy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMljyeMfakY
Baby Bash - Suga Suga
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqWzWMhaKtg
Pretty Ricky - Grind on me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efDfLnKdXzg
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Thanks magic, I almost gave up. Touchdown was a great one.
I don't know how I forgot the prince of f*ck, though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZdU_jyG6cl8
I don't know how I forgot the prince of f*ck, though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZdU_jyG6cl8
For some reason the song "I love college" by ashter roth is very good. I know its very bro-ish. I am not a bro, just a normal guy. But the lyrics and music video especially shows his essence. Just have "fun" and do it naturally. A lot of alpha moments. It really gets me back to the "fun" state instead of the "oh **** whats the next step to do with her?" state.
KontrollerX
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5AAcgtMjUI
During my youtube browsing today I somehow stumbled across this song and then remembered this topic.
Always loved this chick's music, too bad she died before her time.
During my youtube browsing today I somehow stumbled across this song and then remembered this topic.
Always loved this chick's music, too bad she died before her time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.