"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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magickarl

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SLOW JAMS??!?!?!?

Dude. I know all kinds of songs that are good for action.

The Game - Touchdown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inp19uNphxc


Kanye west ft. Twista/Jamie Foxx - Slow Jamz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sj0UM7cVyKo

Twista ft. Do or Die - Do you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Laj2unxWsIg&feature=related

T.I. - Why u wanna (sorry, could only find the remix on youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7YKbr2CeF8&feature=related

Tupac - I'd rather be ya N.I.G.G.A / Bootsy Collins - I'd rather be with you / Easy-E - I'd rather **** you / Do or Die - I'd rather pimp you


Bootsy Collins was the original, but all of these have essentially the same instrumental.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqjWnndIuJE

Chingy - One call away


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQBmDorsSwY

Twista ft. R-Kelly - So sexy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMljyeMfakY

Baby Bash - Suga Suga
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqWzWMhaKtg

Pretty Ricky - Grind on me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efDfLnKdXzg
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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piranha45

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god i hate hiphop.
 

ssj4halo

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For some reason the song "I love college" by ashter roth is very good. I know its very bro-ish. I am not a bro, just a normal guy. But the lyrics and music video especially shows his essence. Just have "fun" and do it naturally. A lot of alpha moments. It really gets me back to the "fun" state instead of the "oh **** whats the next step to do with her?" state.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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