"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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magickarl

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SLOW JAMS??!?!?!?

Dude. I know all kinds of songs that are good for action.

The Game - Touchdown
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inp19uNphxc


Kanye west ft. Twista/Jamie Foxx - Slow Jamz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sj0UM7cVyKo

Twista ft. Do or Die - Do you
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Laj2unxWsIg&feature=related

T.I. - Why u wanna (sorry, could only find the remix on youtube)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7YKbr2CeF8&feature=related

Tupac - I'd rather be ya N.I.G.G.A / Bootsy Collins - I'd rather be with you / Easy-E - I'd rather **** you / Do or Die - I'd rather pimp you


Bootsy Collins was the original, but all of these have essentially the same instrumental.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqjWnndIuJE

Chingy - One call away


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQBmDorsSwY

Twista ft. R-Kelly - So sexy
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMljyeMfakY

Baby Bash - Suga Suga
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kqWzWMhaKtg

Pretty Ricky - Grind on me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=efDfLnKdXzg
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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piranha45

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god i hate hiphop.
 

ssj4halo

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For some reason the song "I love college" by ashter roth is very good. I know its very bro-ish. I am not a bro, just a normal guy. But the lyrics and music video especially shows his essence. Just have "fun" and do it naturally. A lot of alpha moments. It really gets me back to the "fun" state instead of the "oh **** whats the next step to do with her?" state.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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