dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Does this site correctly reflect what women are looking for (or not),aesthetically speaking?
http://www.hotornot.com
http://www.hotornot.com
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hot or Not
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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This site is for those who aren't comfortable with themselves. They try to get other people's honest opinions to either try and feel better about themselves, or to discover that they're hopelessly ugly.
Don't bother with it.
Don't bother with it.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
I just look at the photos on there and wonder why on earth such UG's would want to parade their own facial debacle in front of the watching world...
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
F*ck that sh*t, I know I'm hot, and I don't need anyone else's approval.
How's the weather in Portsmouth?
How's the weather in Portsmouth?
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Crap...where are you mush?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Yes, it correctly reflects what ugly, overweight women and homosexual men who sit at home rating peope on internet sites are looking for, aesthetically speaking.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Canada
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
i'm not hot i know that but i don't anyone else's opinion. some people like some don't, that's how it goes.
stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
to me this is the absolute sh!t!!, why do people want to parade pictures of themselves on a no-good site because they are unsure of themselves, just get the confidence from here and go out and look for girls, it's as simple as that!!
i'm sorry but i'll never slap my picture on that site or anywhere else on the net, it's not worthy
i'm sorry but i'll never slap my picture on that site or anywhere else on the net, it's not worthy
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
U a fag or a bird?
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Shut up
WeakMenNeverRise
Don Juan
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Yes, those sites do represent what women are looking for. Those women out there who used to have schlongs. Those sites are extremely homosexual. Straight whack. And NOBODY who thinks they look good and is confident about it will put their pictures on that site. Its like saying to the world, please, please, tell me i'm cute, please. Anybody who puts their pic on those sites needs to get either get a prescription for some zoloft or some weed because they need to CHILL.