dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Does this site correctly reflect what women are looking for (or not),aesthetically speaking?
http://www.hotornot.com
http://www.hotornot.com
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hot or Not
- Thread starter dearsappho
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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This site is for those who aren't comfortable with themselves. They try to get other people's honest opinions to either try and feel better about themselves, or to discover that they're hopelessly ugly.
Don't bother with it.
Don't bother with it.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
I just look at the photos on there and wonder why on earth such UG's would want to parade their own facial debacle in front of the watching world...
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
F*ck that sh*t, I know I'm hot, and I don't need anyone else's approval.
How's the weather in Portsmouth?
How's the weather in Portsmouth?
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Crap...where are you mush?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Yes, it correctly reflects what ugly, overweight women and homosexual men who sit at home rating peope on internet sites are looking for, aesthetically speaking.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Canada
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
i'm not hot i know that but i don't anyone else's opinion. some people like some don't, that's how it goes.
stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
to me this is the absolute sh!t!!, why do people want to parade pictures of themselves on a no-good site because they are unsure of themselves, just get the confidence from here and go out and look for girls, it's as simple as that!!
i'm sorry but i'll never slap my picture on that site or anywhere else on the net, it's not worthy
i'm sorry but i'll never slap my picture on that site or anywhere else on the net, it's not worthy
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
U a fag or a bird?
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Shut up
WeakMenNeverRise
Don Juan
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Yes, those sites do represent what women are looking for. Those women out there who used to have schlongs. Those sites are extremely homosexual. Straight whack. And NOBODY who thinks they look good and is confident about it will put their pictures on that site. Its like saying to the world, please, please, tell me i'm cute, please. Anybody who puts their pic on those sites needs to get either get a prescription for some zoloft or some weed because they need to CHILL.