dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Does this site correctly reflect what women are looking for (or not),aesthetically speaking?
http://www.hotornot.com
http://www.hotornot.com
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hot or Not
- Thread starter dearsappho
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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This site is for those who aren't comfortable with themselves. They try to get other people's honest opinions to either try and feel better about themselves, or to discover that they're hopelessly ugly.
Don't bother with it.
Don't bother with it.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
I just look at the photos on there and wonder why on earth such UG's would want to parade their own facial debacle in front of the watching world...
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
F*ck that sh*t, I know I'm hot, and I don't need anyone else's approval.
How's the weather in Portsmouth?
How's the weather in Portsmouth?
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
Crap...where are you mush?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Yes, it correctly reflects what ugly, overweight women and homosexual men who sit at home rating peope on internet sites are looking for, aesthetically speaking.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Canada
Sayajin_Prince
Don Juan
i'm not hot i know that but i don't anyone else's opinion. some people like some don't, that's how it goes.
stevey_2000
Senior Don Juan
to me this is the absolute sh!t!!, why do people want to parade pictures of themselves on a no-good site because they are unsure of themselves, just get the confidence from here and go out and look for girls, it's as simple as that!!
i'm sorry but i'll never slap my picture on that site or anywhere else on the net, it's not worthy
i'm sorry but i'll never slap my picture on that site or anywhere else on the net, it's not worthy
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
dearsappho
Senior Don Juan
U a fag or a bird?
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Shut up
WeakMenNeverRise
Don Juan
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Yes, those sites do represent what women are looking for. Those women out there who used to have schlongs. Those sites are extremely homosexual. Straight whack. And NOBODY who thinks they look good and is confident about it will put their pictures on that site. Its like saying to the world, please, please, tell me i'm cute, please. Anybody who puts their pic on those sites needs to get either get a prescription for some zoloft or some weed because they need to CHILL.