"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LadiesMan2117

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You : So, there's a hot chick I've got on my mind, what do you reckon is the best say to ask her out?
Her : Well, (insert whatever the hell she thinks is a good way to ask someone out here)
You : Right. So what do you say we (insert the method she just told you)?

Then you smile while maintaining eye contact, and HOLD IT.
Her : Oh kiss me!!! *instant make out session*

What do you guys think? Effective? Or just corny?

Also if there have been some smooth asking-outs you've made, I'd like to hear about it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SinJester

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It doesn't matter what you say. It will probably work if she likes you, and it wont if she doesn't :p
 

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dont take this personally but you really shouldnt say that.. it sounds really stupid. best of luck..

dont think about what you're going to say.. be spontaneous.
 

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hahaha the instant make out thing was just the intended result :D no real expectations there... My action after the eye contact would depend on how she reacts.
 

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LadiesMan2117 said:
You : So, there's a hot chick I've got on my mind, what do you reckon is the best say to ask her out?
Her : Well, (insert whatever the hell she thinks is a good way to ask someone out here)
You : Right. So what do you say we (insert the method she just told you)?

Then you smile while maintaining eye contact, and HOLD IT.
Her : Oh kiss me!!! *instant make out session*

What do you guys think? Effective? Or just corny?

Also if there have been some smooth asking-outs you've made, I'd like to hear about it.
This will work in sydney if your social value is high enough, and passive attraction is strong.

:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It doesn't matter what you say. It will probably work if she likes you, and it wont if she doesn't

Oh I already said that?

Stop looking for the perfect line! If you want to know what works try it!
 
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