"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LadiesMan2117

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You : So, there's a hot chick I've got on my mind, what do you reckon is the best say to ask her out?
Her : Well, (insert whatever the hell she thinks is a good way to ask someone out here)
You : Right. So what do you say we (insert the method she just told you)?

Then you smile while maintaining eye contact, and HOLD IT.
Her : Oh kiss me!!! *instant make out session*

What do you guys think? Effective? Or just corny?

Also if there have been some smooth asking-outs you've made, I'd like to hear about it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It doesn't matter what you say. It will probably work if she likes you, and it wont if she doesn't :p
 

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dont take this personally but you really shouldnt say that.. it sounds really stupid. best of luck..

dont think about what you're going to say.. be spontaneous.
 

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hahaha the instant make out thing was just the intended result :D no real expectations there... My action after the eye contact would depend on how she reacts.
 

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LadiesMan2117 said:
You : So, there's a hot chick I've got on my mind, what do you reckon is the best say to ask her out?
Her : Well, (insert whatever the hell she thinks is a good way to ask someone out here)
You : Right. So what do you say we (insert the method she just told you)?

Then you smile while maintaining eye contact, and HOLD IT.
Her : Oh kiss me!!! *instant make out session*

What do you guys think? Effective? Or just corny?

Also if there have been some smooth asking-outs you've made, I'd like to hear about it.
This will work in sydney if your social value is high enough, and passive attraction is strong.

:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It doesn't matter what you say. It will probably work if she likes you, and it wont if she doesn't

Oh I already said that?

Stop looking for the perfect line! If you want to know what works try it!
 
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