"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You : So, there's a hot chick I've got on my mind, what do you reckon is the best say to ask her out?
Her : Well, (insert whatever the hell she thinks is a good way to ask someone out here)
You : Right. So what do you say we (insert the method she just told you)?

Then you smile while maintaining eye contact, and HOLD IT.
Her : Oh kiss me!!! *instant make out session*

What do you guys think? Effective? Or just corny?

Also if there have been some smooth asking-outs you've made, I'd like to hear about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SinJester

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It doesn't matter what you say. It will probably work if she likes you, and it wont if she doesn't :p
 

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dont take this personally but you really shouldnt say that.. it sounds really stupid. best of luck..

dont think about what you're going to say.. be spontaneous.
 

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hahaha the instant make out thing was just the intended result :D no real expectations there... My action after the eye contact would depend on how she reacts.
 

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LadiesMan2117 said:
You : So, there's a hot chick I've got on my mind, what do you reckon is the best say to ask her out?
Her : Well, (insert whatever the hell she thinks is a good way to ask someone out here)
You : Right. So what do you say we (insert the method she just told you)?

Then you smile while maintaining eye contact, and HOLD IT.
Her : Oh kiss me!!! *instant make out session*

What do you guys think? Effective? Or just corny?

Also if there have been some smooth asking-outs you've made, I'd like to hear about it.
This will work in sydney if your social value is high enough, and passive attraction is strong.

:)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SinJester

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It doesn't matter what you say. It will probably work if she likes you, and it wont if she doesn't

Oh I already said that?

Stop looking for the perfect line! If you want to know what works try it!
 
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