"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hot or not rating accurate?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Raven80

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It's very accurate, because the people that do the voting need to have the appropriate judging credentials to be able to vote on that site. So at the end, what you do get are the industries top experts all gathered in one place ready to give their expert opinion. I've even heard some stories that some guys took the risk and put their pictures up and they were given scores of 5 and below, last I heard, those guys to this day, have not dated. So in my opinion, don't take that chance, because if you turn out ugly, then the whole internet will know.
 

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If you need people on internet to tell you if you are hot or not on some half ass BS site, then you have serious confidence issues that you need to work on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No, not accurate at all, for a variety of reasons.

I think Raven80 was joking...

And ignore people saying things like "who cares?" Looks matter, you should take pride in your appearance. You should improve it as much as possible, though you shouldn't let it hold you back if you are unattractive.
 

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its ridiculous how inaccurate it is. im gonna say this again. its ridiculous how inaccurate it is.
 

Skydiver43127

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Nope, not accurate. I believe it used to be, until they implemented the "Rate people if you want to be rated" concept.
And since most of the time I have better things to do I just hit "5" on everything without looking in order to finish the task in less time. I believe most people do the same. (but a better person would click 10 I suppose)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Skydiver43127

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If you need people on internet to tell you if you are hot or not on some half ass BS site, then you have serious confidence issues that you need to work on.
Nope, if you can even imagine him doing that you have serious confidence issues. Hotornot used to be an easy way to select your best picture in a collection. I actually learned about the site's existance from DeAngelo. But since they ruined it I have to do it the old-fascioned way now - thinking about it myself and asking female friends.
 

ZenGodMod

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The problem here is that Hot or Not demands us to judge a person with very little knowledge of this person. Take the link for example. Based on looks alone this guy needs help, but because his horse baring it creates the illusion of a caring sensitive man thus more points.

Same with women, the more flesh they present, the more point they seem to get. Seen some avg looking girls, but in bikinis are scoring 9s.

Once you understand how shallow the point system is, your understand it's limits.
 
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