"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hot or not rating accurate?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's very accurate, because the people that do the voting need to have the appropriate judging credentials to be able to vote on that site. So at the end, what you do get are the industries top experts all gathered in one place ready to give their expert opinion. I've even heard some stories that some guys took the risk and put their pictures up and they were given scores of 5 and below, last I heard, those guys to this day, have not dated. So in my opinion, don't take that chance, because if you turn out ugly, then the whole internet will know.
 

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If you need people on internet to tell you if you are hot or not on some half ass BS site, then you have serious confidence issues that you need to work on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, not accurate at all, for a variety of reasons.

I think Raven80 was joking...

And ignore people saying things like "who cares?" Looks matter, you should take pride in your appearance. You should improve it as much as possible, though you shouldn't let it hold you back if you are unattractive.
 

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its ridiculous how inaccurate it is. im gonna say this again. its ridiculous how inaccurate it is.
 

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Nope, not accurate. I believe it used to be, until they implemented the "Rate people if you want to be rated" concept.
And since most of the time I have better things to do I just hit "5" on everything without looking in order to finish the task in less time. I believe most people do the same. (but a better person would click 10 I suppose)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skydiver43127

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If you need people on internet to tell you if you are hot or not on some half ass BS site, then you have serious confidence issues that you need to work on.
Nope, if you can even imagine him doing that you have serious confidence issues. Hotornot used to be an easy way to select your best picture in a collection. I actually learned about the site's existance from DeAngelo. But since they ruined it I have to do it the old-fascioned way now - thinking about it myself and asking female friends.
 

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The problem here is that Hot or Not demands us to judge a person with very little knowledge of this person. Take the link for example. Based on looks alone this guy needs help, but because his horse baring it creates the illusion of a caring sensitive man thus more points.

Same with women, the more flesh they present, the more point they seem to get. Seen some avg looking girls, but in bikinis are scoring 9s.

Once you understand how shallow the point system is, your understand it's limits.
 
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