"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HOT chick in her 20's

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Hey people,

I have a problem. Where I live there is this hella hot chick that lives across the street from me. She's in her 20's.

My guess is that she's 20 or 21. Well, I see her all the damn time and she is so damn hot. She's in college cuz i see her leave with her backpack all the time. Well I tried to ignore her, but I cant. I just saw her come out with a skirt on. She dropped her keys and totally bent over to pick them up and im like damn! Well to get to the point.

I'm 16 shes in her twenties... She lives with another college roomate. I see a guy come over once and a while and stay the night...

Should I just keep my blinds shut to keep her out of my head, or anyone think I should attempt anything..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jonny football hero

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Why you asking for judgement from us? do what YOU feel you should do.
 

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Yea,

Thats what I though. I only look about 17 so im gonna pass on this one. There's plenty more out there.
 

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I say go for it. I can't speak for myself, but my dad tells me all the time about how he used hit on absolutely every girl that crossed his path (starting at about 15). he said that most of the old ones would be like "you don't even have a beard yet," but he'd persevere, and some of em would fall for his devilish ways. some girls don't mind. some girls will still find a young guy cute. my dad says that a lot of what prevents older women from going with younger guys is embarrassment. try and talk to her a couple times, seem mature, and one day ask her to coffee... that'd what I'd do if I could muster up the courage in that situation :(
you have nothing to lose

show everyone here that it can be done
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by dapork
I say go for it. I can't speak for myself, but my dad tells me all the time about how he used hit on absolutely every girl that crossed his path (starting at about 15). he said that most of the old ones would be like "you don't even have a beard yet," but he'd persevere, and some of em would fall for his devilish ways. some girls don't mind. some girls will still find a young guy cute. my dad says that a lot of what prevents older women from going with younger guys is embarrassment. try and talk to her a couple times, seem mature, and one day ask her to coffee... that'd what I'd do if I could muster up the courage in that situation :(
you have nothing to lose

show everyone here that it can be done
i think we should have ur dad instead of u on our board ;)
 

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hey guys,

i will keep it in mind but just 2 weeks ago i was an afc. i need to gain some experience before i go for something that large in scale. give me a few months.
 

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hit the gym, get a tan, take your shirt off and wash your car a lot outside where she can see you.... when she comes outside, say something funny.... "wanna free lesson?" "dont' just stand there, grab a towel"... anything to start the ball rolling

don't mention what grade you are in, or anything to indicate your age...

or you could just not do anything and wonder for the rest of eternity what might have happened.
 
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