"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HOT chick in her 20's

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Hey people,

I have a problem. Where I live there is this hella hot chick that lives across the street from me. She's in her 20's.

My guess is that she's 20 or 21. Well, I see her all the damn time and she is so damn hot. She's in college cuz i see her leave with her backpack all the time. Well I tried to ignore her, but I cant. I just saw her come out with a skirt on. She dropped her keys and totally bent over to pick them up and im like damn! Well to get to the point.

I'm 16 shes in her twenties... She lives with another college roomate. I see a guy come over once and a while and stay the night...

Should I just keep my blinds shut to keep her out of my head, or anyone think I should attempt anything..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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jonny football hero

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Why you asking for judgement from us? do what YOU feel you should do.
 

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Yea,

Thats what I though. I only look about 17 so im gonna pass on this one. There's plenty more out there.
 

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I say go for it. I can't speak for myself, but my dad tells me all the time about how he used hit on absolutely every girl that crossed his path (starting at about 15). he said that most of the old ones would be like "you don't even have a beard yet," but he'd persevere, and some of em would fall for his devilish ways. some girls don't mind. some girls will still find a young guy cute. my dad says that a lot of what prevents older women from going with younger guys is embarrassment. try and talk to her a couple times, seem mature, and one day ask her to coffee... that'd what I'd do if I could muster up the courage in that situation :(
you have nothing to lose

show everyone here that it can be done
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by dapork
I say go for it. I can't speak for myself, but my dad tells me all the time about how he used hit on absolutely every girl that crossed his path (starting at about 15). he said that most of the old ones would be like "you don't even have a beard yet," but he'd persevere, and some of em would fall for his devilish ways. some girls don't mind. some girls will still find a young guy cute. my dad says that a lot of what prevents older women from going with younger guys is embarrassment. try and talk to her a couple times, seem mature, and one day ask her to coffee... that'd what I'd do if I could muster up the courage in that situation :(
you have nothing to lose

show everyone here that it can be done
i think we should have ur dad instead of u on our board ;)
 

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hey guys,

i will keep it in mind but just 2 weeks ago i was an afc. i need to gain some experience before i go for something that large in scale. give me a few months.
 

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hit the gym, get a tan, take your shirt off and wash your car a lot outside where she can see you.... when she comes outside, say something funny.... "wanna free lesson?" "dont' just stand there, grab a towel"... anything to start the ball rolling

don't mention what grade you are in, or anything to indicate your age...

or you could just not do anything and wonder for the rest of eternity what might have happened.
 
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