"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Horrible coincidence. Am I concerned over nothing?

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I seen the pickup artist on VH1 yesterday and to my surprise our mystery dude sports the same exact style I've had for the past few years. My success with ALL types of women has been phenomenal ever since this change. His style of dress is strikingly similiar to mine especially with the hair and the eye liner but my game is somewhat different from his. The problem is that the nature of this show is about picking up women and considering that I happen to look like this guy in a way I don't know if it would hurt my game in the sense that I'm likely to be accused if copying someone elses look and game just to try and get women. I'm not looking forward to any major changes in my appearance because I feel more like "myself". Any suggestions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So..tell them that it's your style and Mystery is copying YOU.

"Damn! I wish he'd quit that!"
 

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Haven't seen the show, but too much exposure for the stuff we learn here can't be good.

And yeah, I see your point. Being mistaken for having using th same look as the guy on tv, can't be good either. Telling them he stole YOUR look can possibly only make you look like a lame-o.
 

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Adrian said:
I seen the pickup artist on VH1 yesterday and to my surprise our mystery dude sports the same exact style I've had for the past few years. My success with ALL types of women has been phenomenal ever since this change. His style of dress is strikingly similiar to mine especially with the hair and the eye liner
I stopped after reading this, EYE LINER????!!!!!...i mean i know you wanna peacock and look diffrent but that's so ****ing girly and sad...your suppose to be a damm bloke....i mean eye liner???!!!! :eek:
 

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demonic said:
I stopped after reading this, EYE LINER????!!!!!...i mean i know you wanna peacock and look diffrent but that's so ****ing girly and sad...your suppose to be a damm bloke....i mean eye liner???!!!! :eek:
Yeah, and how well do you do on the field, Mr Oh-so-manly?

Eyeliner can be hot if it's pulled off right. It's a fine art, though. Do it wrong and a guy will just end up looking like an emo or a panda.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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