"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Horrible coincidence. Am I concerned over nothing?

Adrian

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I seen the pickup artist on VH1 yesterday and to my surprise our mystery dude sports the same exact style I've had for the past few years. My success with ALL types of women has been phenomenal ever since this change. His style of dress is strikingly similiar to mine especially with the hair and the eye liner but my game is somewhat different from his. The problem is that the nature of this show is about picking up women and considering that I happen to look like this guy in a way I don't know if it would hurt my game in the sense that I'm likely to be accused if copying someone elses look and game just to try and get women. I'm not looking forward to any major changes in my appearance because I feel more like "myself". Any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So..tell them that it's your style and Mystery is copying YOU.

"Damn! I wish he'd quit that!"
 

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Haven't seen the show, but too much exposure for the stuff we learn here can't be good.

And yeah, I see your point. Being mistaken for having using th same look as the guy on tv, can't be good either. Telling them he stole YOUR look can possibly only make you look like a lame-o.
 

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Adrian said:
I seen the pickup artist on VH1 yesterday and to my surprise our mystery dude sports the same exact style I've had for the past few years. My success with ALL types of women has been phenomenal ever since this change. His style of dress is strikingly similiar to mine especially with the hair and the eye liner
I stopped after reading this, EYE LINER????!!!!!...i mean i know you wanna peacock and look diffrent but that's so ****ing girly and sad...your suppose to be a damm bloke....i mean eye liner???!!!! :eek:
 

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demonic said:
I stopped after reading this, EYE LINER????!!!!!...i mean i know you wanna peacock and look diffrent but that's so ****ing girly and sad...your suppose to be a damm bloke....i mean eye liner???!!!! :eek:
Yeah, and how well do you do on the field, Mr Oh-so-manly?

Eyeliner can be hot if it's pulled off right. It's a fine art, though. Do it wrong and a guy will just end up looking like an emo or a panda.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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