"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Horny" then silence.

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12am messaging a girl im dating she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.

Whats the deal according to you guys??


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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12am messaging a girl im dating she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.

Whats the deal according to you guys??


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
That was your opening to get really X-rated with her. In my opinion, You should have responded like this...

You: So how are you doing
Her: Horny
You: Too bad i'm not there to grab you by your hips, Spread your legs wide open and slowly slide my c0ck in that dripping wet pvssy.

Guaranteed response from her 100%. At the very minimum she would ask you to continue telling her more.

Women sometimes give us Men an opening to get really verbally ballsy and deep down inside, this makes them incredibly horny for you. Especially visualization. Women visualize things when you make descriptions about how you'd fvck them.
 

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Her: "horny"
You: "Fine, you twisted my arm. On my way".
She lives with family, i tr
That was your opening to get really X-rated with her. In my opinion, You should have responded like this...

You: So how are you doing
Her: Horny
You: Too bad i'm not there to grab you by your hips, Spread your legs wide open and slowly slide my c0ck in that dripping wet pvssy.

Guaranteed response from her 100%. At the very minimum she would ask you to continue telling her more.


Women sometimes give us Men an opening to get really verbally ballsy and deep down inside, this makes them incredibly horny for you. Especially visualization. Women visualize things when you make descriptions about how you'd fvck them.

You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
Lmao...you never have even kissed? This chick is just messing with you
 

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12am messaging a girl im dating
, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed.


Hmm. So.......you're dating a girl that you've never kissed before. Odd.

You also said this chick still lives with her parents. So I take it you two both must be in high school.

Does she consider the two of you to be "dating" as well?



she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.
Hmm. Well...if you two have never even kissed,what makes you think you can just bypass that and just go straight to sex/and/or "pleasuring" her? And WHY haven't you two kissed yet?

Have you tried and gotten turned down....or simply not tried at all? And you say you two "are dating"?

This is some Twilight Zone sh*t right here.

Whats the deal according to you guys??
I'm more interested in what YOUR DEAL is,to be honest. Chicks play games and tease all the time,that's nothing new. But to be "dating" one whom you've yet to have even a single kiss with,that's what's odd.


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
If that's the case....if she likes playing games and toying around with people,then why is her "I'm horny" then her disappearing such a shock to you? She straight up TOLD YOU what she likes to do and how she enjoys screwing around with people.

What,did you think she'd mess around with everyone else,but be straightforward only with YOU?

You think you were the exception to her BS and games?
 

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You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
Yes you definitely played it too subtle. If you get an opportunity like that again, You have to go all out X-rated. You may have even turned her off by being too subtle and she didn't bother to respond.
 

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Hmm. So.......you're dating a girl that you've never kissed before. Odd.

You also said this chick still lives with her parents. So I take it you two both must be in high school.

Does she consider the two of you to be "dating" as well?





Hmm. Well...if you two have never even kissed,what makes you think you can just bypass that and just go straight to sex/and/or "pleasuring" her? And WHY haven't you two kissed yet?

Have you tried and gotten turned down....or simply not tried at all? And you say you two "are dating"?

This is some Twilight Zone sh*t right here.



I'm more interested in what YOUR DEAL is,to be honest. Chicks play games and tease all the time,that's nothing new. But to be "dating" one whom you've yet to have even a single kiss with,that's what's odd.




If that's the case....if she likes playing games and toying around with people,then why is her "I'm horny" then her disappearing such a shock to you? She straight up TOLD YOU what she likes to do and how she enjoys screwing around with people.

What,did you think she'd mess around with everyone else,but be straightforward only with YOU?

You think you were the exception to her BS and games?
Dating as i we went o 2 dates. I have not gone for the kiss close.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hmm. So.......you're dating a girl that you've never kissed before. Odd.

You also said this chick still lives with her parents. So I take it you two both must be in high school.

Does she consider the two of you to be "dating" as well?





Hmm. Well...if you two have never even kissed,what makes you think you can just bypass that and just go straight to sex/and/or "pleasuring" her? And WHY haven't you two kissed yet?

Have you tried and gotten turned down....or simply not tried at all? And you say you two "are dating"?

This is some Twilight Zone sh*t right here.



I'm more interested in what YOUR DEAL is,to be honest. Chicks play games and tease all the time,that's nothing new. But to be "dating" one whom you've yet to have even a single kiss with,that's what's odd.




If that's the case....if she likes playing games and toying around with people,then why is her "I'm horny" then her disappearing such a shock to you? She straight up TOLD YOU what she likes to do and how she enjoys screwing around with people.

What,did you think she'd mess around with everyone else,but be straightforward only with YOU?

You think you were the exception to her BS and games?
Honestly yes i did, it never seemed like she was in for that reason.
 

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Yes you definitely played it too subtle. If you get an opportunity like that again, You have to go all out X-rated. You may have even turned her off by being too subtle and she didn't bother to respond.
FML.

But what dont kill makes you stronger. Next time i'll play it smarter!
 

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You did fine imo

Subtle is fine. James Bond is subtle

The problem is the girl not you

Let her play her games with someone esle

Keep your frame
 

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You should have gone over...
 

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You did fine imo

Subtle is fine. James Bond is subtle

The problem is the girl not you

Let her play her games with someone esle

Keep your frame
Nobody is perfect, i played the moment. This morning i txt her to come over for dinner so i could spank her for being a tease. That didnt go well either still silence.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FML.

But what dont kill makes you stronger. Next time i'll play it smarter!
Yes, Don't play it smarter, play it dirtier. Girls/Women are kinkier than you could ever imagine. Don't be afraid to talk X-rated to a female when the opportunity presents itself. She will, ad minimum be incredibly intrigued at the fact that you has the balls to say something like that to her and at maximum, its going to make her panties SOAKED! and she'll beg you to come over.
 

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Yes, Don't play it smarter, play it dirtier. Girls/Women are kinkier than you could ever imagine. Don't be afraid to talk X-rated to a female when the opportunity presents itself. She will, ad minimum be incredibly intrigued at the fact that you has the balls to say something like that to her and at maximum, its going to make her panties SOAKED! and she'll beg you to come over.

This morning i txt her to come over for dinner so i could spank her for being a tease. That didnt go well either still silence.
 

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Nobody is perfect, i played the moment. This morning i txt her to come over for dinner so i could spank her for being a tease. That didnt go well either still silence.
My guess is that she's turned off. You shouldn't have texted her and let her text you. Let it smooth over and wait for her to initiate a conversation. Once again, next opportunity, go X-rated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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