"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Horny" then silence.

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12am messaging a girl im dating she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.

Whats the deal according to you guys??


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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12am messaging a girl im dating she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.

Whats the deal according to you guys??


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
That was your opening to get really X-rated with her. In my opinion, You should have responded like this...

You: So how are you doing
Her: Horny
You: Too bad i'm not there to grab you by your hips, Spread your legs wide open and slowly slide my c0ck in that dripping wet pvssy.

Guaranteed response from her 100%. At the very minimum she would ask you to continue telling her more.

Women sometimes give us Men an opening to get really verbally ballsy and deep down inside, this makes them incredibly horny for you. Especially visualization. Women visualize things when you make descriptions about how you'd fvck them.
 

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Her: "horny"
You: "Fine, you twisted my arm. On my way".
She lives with family, i tr
That was your opening to get really X-rated with her. In my opinion, You should have responded like this...

You: So how are you doing
Her: Horny
You: Too bad i'm not there to grab you by your hips, Spread your legs wide open and slowly slide my c0ck in that dripping wet pvssy.

Guaranteed response from her 100%. At the very minimum she would ask you to continue telling her more.


Women sometimes give us Men an opening to get really verbally ballsy and deep down inside, this makes them incredibly horny for you. Especially visualization. Women visualize things when you make descriptions about how you'd fvck them.

You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
Lmao...you never have even kissed? This chick is just messing with you
 

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12am messaging a girl im dating
, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed.


Hmm. So.......you're dating a girl that you've never kissed before. Odd.

You also said this chick still lives with her parents. So I take it you two both must be in high school.

Does she consider the two of you to be "dating" as well?



she asks how im doing i answer ask about herself she answers "horny" i ask her if that was usual after she finished projects, and that i was all for it. She said that she likes to pleasure herself after stressfull projects. I told her she shouldnt be doing it all by herself. Then silence.
Hmm. Well...if you two have never even kissed,what makes you think you can just bypass that and just go straight to sex/and/or "pleasuring" her? And WHY haven't you two kissed yet?

Have you tried and gotten turned down....or simply not tried at all? And you say you two "are dating"?

This is some Twilight Zone sh*t right here.

Whats the deal according to you guys??
I'm more interested in what YOUR DEAL is,to be honest. Chicks play games and tease all the time,that's nothing new. But to be "dating" one whom you've yet to have even a single kiss with,that's what's odd.


Last dinner we had she told me how she had fun impersonating a younger girl to fish for pervs and enjoyed setting up appointments and teasing these people to then bale.
If that's the case....if she likes playing games and toying around with people,then why is her "I'm horny" then her disappearing such a shock to you? She straight up TOLD YOU what she likes to do and how she enjoys screwing around with people.

What,did you think she'd mess around with everyone else,but be straightforward only with YOU?

You think you were the exception to her BS and games?
 

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You probably are correct, i played it more subtle since we never even kissed. But i thought i made it clear i was ready to play.
Yes you definitely played it too subtle. If you get an opportunity like that again, You have to go all out X-rated. You may have even turned her off by being too subtle and she didn't bother to respond.
 

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Hmm. So.......you're dating a girl that you've never kissed before. Odd.

You also said this chick still lives with her parents. So I take it you two both must be in high school.

Does she consider the two of you to be "dating" as well?





Hmm. Well...if you two have never even kissed,what makes you think you can just bypass that and just go straight to sex/and/or "pleasuring" her? And WHY haven't you two kissed yet?

Have you tried and gotten turned down....or simply not tried at all? And you say you two "are dating"?

This is some Twilight Zone sh*t right here.



I'm more interested in what YOUR DEAL is,to be honest. Chicks play games and tease all the time,that's nothing new. But to be "dating" one whom you've yet to have even a single kiss with,that's what's odd.




If that's the case....if she likes playing games and toying around with people,then why is her "I'm horny" then her disappearing such a shock to you? She straight up TOLD YOU what she likes to do and how she enjoys screwing around with people.

What,did you think she'd mess around with everyone else,but be straightforward only with YOU?

You think you were the exception to her BS and games?
Dating as i we went o 2 dates. I have not gone for the kiss close.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmm. So.......you're dating a girl that you've never kissed before. Odd.

You also said this chick still lives with her parents. So I take it you two both must be in high school.

Does she consider the two of you to be "dating" as well?





Hmm. Well...if you two have never even kissed,what makes you think you can just bypass that and just go straight to sex/and/or "pleasuring" her? And WHY haven't you two kissed yet?

Have you tried and gotten turned down....or simply not tried at all? And you say you two "are dating"?

This is some Twilight Zone sh*t right here.



I'm more interested in what YOUR DEAL is,to be honest. Chicks play games and tease all the time,that's nothing new. But to be "dating" one whom you've yet to have even a single kiss with,that's what's odd.




If that's the case....if she likes playing games and toying around with people,then why is her "I'm horny" then her disappearing such a shock to you? She straight up TOLD YOU what she likes to do and how she enjoys screwing around with people.

What,did you think she'd mess around with everyone else,but be straightforward only with YOU?

You think you were the exception to her BS and games?
Honestly yes i did, it never seemed like she was in for that reason.
 

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Yes you definitely played it too subtle. If you get an opportunity like that again, You have to go all out X-rated. You may have even turned her off by being too subtle and she didn't bother to respond.
FML.

But what dont kill makes you stronger. Next time i'll play it smarter!
 

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You did fine imo

Subtle is fine. James Bond is subtle

The problem is the girl not you

Let her play her games with someone esle

Keep your frame
 

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You should have gone over...
 

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You did fine imo

Subtle is fine. James Bond is subtle

The problem is the girl not you

Let her play her games with someone esle

Keep your frame
Nobody is perfect, i played the moment. This morning i txt her to come over for dinner so i could spank her for being a tease. That didnt go well either still silence.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FML.

But what dont kill makes you stronger. Next time i'll play it smarter!
Yes, Don't play it smarter, play it dirtier. Girls/Women are kinkier than you could ever imagine. Don't be afraid to talk X-rated to a female when the opportunity presents itself. She will, ad minimum be incredibly intrigued at the fact that you has the balls to say something like that to her and at maximum, its going to make her panties SOAKED! and she'll beg you to come over.
 

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Yes, Don't play it smarter, play it dirtier. Girls/Women are kinkier than you could ever imagine. Don't be afraid to talk X-rated to a female when the opportunity presents itself. She will, ad minimum be incredibly intrigued at the fact that you has the balls to say something like that to her and at maximum, its going to make her panties SOAKED! and she'll beg you to come over.

This morning i txt her to come over for dinner so i could spank her for being a tease. That didnt go well either still silence.
 

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Nobody is perfect, i played the moment. This morning i txt her to come over for dinner so i could spank her for being a tease. That didnt go well either still silence.
My guess is that she's turned off. You shouldn't have texted her and let her text you. Let it smooth over and wait for her to initiate a conversation. Once again, next opportunity, go X-rated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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