"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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John9999

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Thought I’d start a thread on this.

I have been on numerous hookup sites with no success before.

I landed on a site 3 weeks ago called kasidie.com.
It’s big with swinger couples, but there are single women as well.

Got 2 chics in 2 weeks, nailed them both at first meeting. No jumping thru hoops, no 3 date bull****, and nobody gets all emotional. I’m loving it. It does take some game, but not the crazy “catch me if you can” bull**** on sites like match or getting gals phone number in real world.

Anyone having actual success on hookup sites. If so which ones. I think the success here vs say tinder is that it costs money to belong so the women are more serious about meeting.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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On regular dating apps you'll find people who are on there for a billion different reasons, makes it harder to navigate if all you wanna do is hook up. On hookup sites there's no doubt what exactly everyone is looking for, just that alone removes a lot of the BS. Also the fact that it costs money does keep away less serious people.

What hookup sites are not good for is actual dating, nobody are there to find the love of their life. So as long as you have zero interests beyond simply hooking up, then it's perfect.
 

John9999

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Oh hell,,, I’m done with relationships at 53 years old. If one happens, great. But I’m not vet the female drama and all that goes with a relationship. Was married for 17 years and was engaged post divorce. Done with it.
 

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I used to hookup from craigslist despite the risks. I could see sites working better
 
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