One of my female friends is pretty good friends with this really hot girl. I don't know this girl, so I asked my friend about her. She says that she is looking for a friends with benefits type relationship, which I'd be down for. My female friend has offered to be my wingman, what would be the best course of action? We're all sophomores in college.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Hooking up with a friend of a friend
- Thread starter vincew887
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backseatjuan
Banned
The best course of action is to invite them both for a party of 3, and possibly bang them both, or bang just one, or be friends with both, all is beneficial.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
For them to consume or for you to consume?
Make sure they have a few more than you. If it's ****tails and you are the drink mixer you know what to do.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Can't make it so strong that they won't drink through it. I guess we find vodkas and other hard liquors which get down more pleasantly.
Start out with comfortable amount of booze in her favorite drink and gradually increase the strength by a small amount each drink. They never notice unless you try to do it too quickly.
It's Very important to recognize when she gets to the fun and frolic zone to get some action, and not take it too far. If she gets too much alcohol you will only have a sloppy drunk to babysit.
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Chicks will prefer vodka drinks, vodka red bull is the way to go with them.
Both, bot as said make sure she drinks more.
Chicks will prefer vodka drinks, vodka red bull is the way to go with them.