One of my female friends is pretty good friends with this really hot girl. I don't know this girl, so I asked my friend about her. She says that she is looking for a friends with benefits type relationship, which I'd be down for. My female friend has offered to be my wingman, what would be the best course of action? We're all sophomores in college.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hooking up with a friend of a friend
- Thread starter vincew887
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
Banned
The best course of action is to invite them both for a party of 3, and possibly bang them both, or bang just one, or be friends with both, all is beneficial.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
For them to consume or for you to consume?
Make sure they have a few more than you. If it's ****tails and you are the drink mixer you know what to do.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Can't make it so strong that they won't drink through it. I guess we find vodkas and other hard liquors which get down more pleasantly.
Start out with comfortable amount of booze in her favorite drink and gradually increase the strength by a small amount each drink. They never notice unless you try to do it too quickly.
It's Very important to recognize when she gets to the fun and frolic zone to get some action, and not take it too far. If she gets too much alcohol you will only have a sloppy drunk to babysit.
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Chicks will prefer vodka drinks, vodka red bull is the way to go with them.
Both, bot as said make sure she drinks more.
Chicks will prefer vodka drinks, vodka red bull is the way to go with them.