One of my female friends is pretty good friends with this really hot girl. I don't know this girl, so I asked my friend about her. She says that she is looking for a friends with benefits type relationship, which I'd be down for. My female friend has offered to be my wingman, what would be the best course of action? We're all sophomores in college.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hooking up with a friend of a friend
- Thread starter vincew887
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
Banned
The best course of action is to invite them both for a party of 3, and possibly bang them both, or bang just one, or be friends with both, all is beneficial.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
For them to consume or for you to consume?
Make sure they have a few more than you. If it's ****tails and you are the drink mixer you know what to do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Can't make it so strong that they won't drink through it. I guess we find vodkas and other hard liquors which get down more pleasantly.
Start out with comfortable amount of booze in her favorite drink and gradually increase the strength by a small amount each drink. They never notice unless you try to do it too quickly.
It's Very important to recognize when she gets to the fun and frolic zone to get some action, and not take it too far. If she gets too much alcohol you will only have a sloppy drunk to babysit.
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Chicks will prefer vodka drinks, vodka red bull is the way to go with them.
Both, bot as said make sure she drinks more.
Chicks will prefer vodka drinks, vodka red bull is the way to go with them.