I went NC on a girl I was hooking up with a few months ago and want to hook up with her again but I just have no idea what to say. Reason for NC was because she stopped replying to me without giving me a reason. NC lasted a month and a half before she reached out but I replied a few days later and ignored her after she tried having a regular convo with me without any mention of wanting to start something up again. We havent talked since and I need some ideas on what I could say or shouldn't say?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hooking up after NC?
- Thread starter Gan
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
...after a month and a half of riding the c0ck carousel. Get her tested first. You don't know where she's been.
Thatfeel21
Senior Don Juan
Make small talk over a course of 5-10days. See where her head is at. If your gut suggests she aint about "it" then stop wasting your time.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.