So I am currently in college and it seems like girls here "hook up" (make out, give head) with a different guy every week. Like... I don't want someone else's sloppy seconds. How do you guys possibly respect girls who randomly hook up? How can you date a girl who gives head to guys who don't even know her name? Are all attractive college girls like this now? I just want to know your thoughts on this. Thanks.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
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The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
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Look up Madonna/***** complex and get over it. Your mom kissed you on the same night she sucked your dads ****.
Look up Madonna/***** complex and get over it. Your mom kissed you on the same night she sucked your dads ****.
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Then be more selective with the girls you deal with. If you're in college you should know a hoe when you see one by now unless you're a total newbie.
Who says we do?
A hookup to me is just going along with the temptation that is being presented to me at that moment. Doesn't mean I will take her home to mom or actually respect her, because respect is earned and you don't earn respect with a hookup where you might never see her again. In fact the lack of respect is probably mutual both parties are just horny and happened to hookup. Respect has nothing to do with a hook up.
There's a difference between a hookup and a date.
From reading your post it seems that you would prefer a more traditional type of girl instead of your average college ho. If so look for those type of women instead.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
If you had more hook ups than them you wouldn't be worried
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
by the time i had met my wife i had hooked up with well over 30 women probalby closer to 45 or 50, don't really keep count.. hell I hooked up with another 2 AFTER i met her. it works both ways. sex is just sex. sex has nothing to do with morality. you are no one's sloppy seconds no girl is your sloppy seconds.
you can either get it now or you can get it later. bi "it" i mean the girl going through her party sleep with guys mode. you can either let the girl get it of her system when she is in college or you can find one that has delionshed herself into thinking she is not like the other girls and try to put a ring on her finger only for her to go through her "I shouldn't havve gotten married so young" stage 7 years later when you have 2 kids.
they are not "*****s" they are nonmral college girls away from home the first time. they are experimenting with their sexuality the same thing you should be doing. I female friend of mine,, absolute knockout. actually the girl that bought me here. in college she went out and partied every weekend and slept with a lot of guys ,went and partied and ****. she's 28 and has been married for 3 years and wont' consider cheating on her husband.
you can either get it now or you can get it later. bi "it" i mean the girl going through her party sleep with guys mode. you can either let the girl get it of her system when she is in college or you can find one that has delionshed herself into thinking she is not like the other girls and try to put a ring on her finger only for her to go through her "I shouldn't havve gotten married so young" stage 7 years later when you have 2 kids.
they are not "*****s" they are nonmral college girls away from home the first time. they are experimenting with their sexuality the same thing you should be doing. I female friend of mine,, absolute knockout. actually the girl that bought me here. in college she went out and partied every weekend and slept with a lot of guys ,went and partied and ****. she's 28 and has been married for 3 years and wont' consider cheating on her husband.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Call it practice. If you want all the chicks that teeth your **** and just lay there when you fvck em all quit, be my guest. Personally? I want a chick that knows how to make me nut hard and well, wet head, pops that pvssy on my ****, and sucks my **** in the mornin, because she knows what guys like from experience. She may suck other ****s, but she also uses listerine and has a soniccare toothbrush, uses protection, and gets checked regularly. Sorry, but I like sluts on the weekend
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
hmmm... I mean... I've only kissed (and everything else) one girl (and she had never been with anyone before me). I really really liked how we had never been with anyone else. I just don't want a complete slut. It's hard for me to imagine that a girl who sleeps around has a lot of respect for herself.
Do you think it's possible for a girl not to be in party mode in college then later not regret it later in life?
Do you think it's possible for a girl not to be in party mode in college then later not regret it later in life?
"Be careful not to use "every single girl here has hooked up with a hundred guys" as an excuse for not approaching. Keep approaching, Keep practicing.
thats the exact reason i dont approach..BECAUSE SHE HAS HOOKED UP WITH HUNDREDS OF GUYS..
why would i want to keep a loose woman around..i dont know why but when i see a hot girl im thinking she is hot but she probaly had her fair share of d!ck..and for some reason completely turned off by that..i know she is only doing natural things but maybe my ego cant handle the fact that they have a sexual past..and they have enjoyed sex even if it was not with me...
thats the exact reason i dont approach..BECAUSE SHE HAS HOOKED UP WITH HUNDREDS OF GUYS..
why would i want to keep a loose woman around..i dont know why but when i see a hot girl im thinking she is hot but she probaly had her fair share of d!ck..and for some reason completely turned off by that..i know she is only doing natural things but maybe my ego cant handle the fact that they have a sexual past..and they have enjoyed sex even if it was not with me...