So I am currently in college and it seems like girls here "hook up" (make out, give head) with a different guy every week. Like... I don't want someone else's sloppy seconds. How do you guys possibly respect girls who randomly hook up? How can you date a girl who gives head to guys who don't even know her name? Are all attractive college girls like this now? I just want to know your thoughts on this. Thanks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
hook-up question...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You get past the skewed idea that a woman who has and enjoys sex is dirty in some way. Eventually you come to terms with the idea that most women you meet past 16 have had miles of **** laid into them 4-8 inches at a time. You come to realize that what you are doing is subconsciously chastising women for doing very natural things, in the same way that society chastises you for jerking off to some weird **** sometimes.
Look up Madonna/***** complex and get over it. Your mom kissed you on the same night she sucked your dads ****.
Look up Madonna/***** complex and get over it. Your mom kissed you on the same night she sucked your dads ****.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Then be more selective with the girls you deal with. If you're in college you should know a hoe when you see one by now unless you're a total newbie.
Who says we do?
A hookup to me is just going along with the temptation that is being presented to me at that moment. Doesn't mean I will take her home to mom or actually respect her, because respect is earned and you don't earn respect with a hookup where you might never see her again. In fact the lack of respect is probably mutual both parties are just horny and happened to hookup. Respect has nothing to do with a hook up.
There's a difference between a hookup and a date.
From reading your post it seems that you would prefer a more traditional type of girl instead of your average college ho. If so look for those type of women instead.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
If you had more hook ups than them you wouldn't be worried
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
by the time i had met my wife i had hooked up with well over 30 women probalby closer to 45 or 50, don't really keep count.. hell I hooked up with another 2 AFTER i met her. it works both ways. sex is just sex. sex has nothing to do with morality. you are no one's sloppy seconds no girl is your sloppy seconds.
you can either get it now or you can get it later. bi "it" i mean the girl going through her party sleep with guys mode. you can either let the girl get it of her system when she is in college or you can find one that has delionshed herself into thinking she is not like the other girls and try to put a ring on her finger only for her to go through her "I shouldn't havve gotten married so young" stage 7 years later when you have 2 kids.
they are not "*****s" they are nonmral college girls away from home the first time. they are experimenting with their sexuality the same thing you should be doing. I female friend of mine,, absolute knockout. actually the girl that bought me here. in college she went out and partied every weekend and slept with a lot of guys ,went and partied and ****. she's 28 and has been married for 3 years and wont' consider cheating on her husband.
you can either get it now or you can get it later. bi "it" i mean the girl going through her party sleep with guys mode. you can either let the girl get it of her system when she is in college or you can find one that has delionshed herself into thinking she is not like the other girls and try to put a ring on her finger only for her to go through her "I shouldn't havve gotten married so young" stage 7 years later when you have 2 kids.
they are not "*****s" they are nonmral college girls away from home the first time. they are experimenting with their sexuality the same thing you should be doing. I female friend of mine,, absolute knockout. actually the girl that bought me here. in college she went out and partied every weekend and slept with a lot of guys ,went and partied and ****. she's 28 and has been married for 3 years and wont' consider cheating on her husband.
Young Juan
Senior Don Juan
Call it practice. If you want all the chicks that teeth your **** and just lay there when you fvck em all quit, be my guest. Personally? I want a chick that knows how to make me nut hard and well, wet head, pops that pvssy on my ****, and sucks my **** in the mornin, because she knows what guys like from experience. She may suck other ****s, but she also uses listerine and has a soniccare toothbrush, uses protection, and gets checked regularly. Sorry, but I like sluts on the weekend
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
hmmm... I mean... I've only kissed (and everything else) one girl (and she had never been with anyone before me). I really really liked how we had never been with anyone else. I just don't want a complete slut. It's hard for me to imagine that a girl who sleeps around has a lot of respect for herself.
Do you think it's possible for a girl not to be in party mode in college then later not regret it later in life?
Do you think it's possible for a girl not to be in party mode in college then later not regret it later in life?
"Be careful not to use "every single girl here has hooked up with a hundred guys" as an excuse for not approaching. Keep approaching, Keep practicing.
thats the exact reason i dont approach..BECAUSE SHE HAS HOOKED UP WITH HUNDREDS OF GUYS..
why would i want to keep a loose woman around..i dont know why but when i see a hot girl im thinking she is hot but she probaly had her fair share of d!ck..and for some reason completely turned off by that..i know she is only doing natural things but maybe my ego cant handle the fact that they have a sexual past..and they have enjoyed sex even if it was not with me...
thats the exact reason i dont approach..BECAUSE SHE HAS HOOKED UP WITH HUNDREDS OF GUYS..
why would i want to keep a loose woman around..i dont know why but when i see a hot girl im thinking she is hot but she probaly had her fair share of d!ck..and for some reason completely turned off by that..i know she is only doing natural things but maybe my ego cant handle the fact that they have a sexual past..and they have enjoyed sex even if it was not with me...