speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Another rep. People don't understand how beneficial it is to just keep their mouth shut.logicallefty said:
I see guys saying that's what hors do. Well, sure it is. But don't we teach guys to spin plates too?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Honesty is overrated
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I see guys saying that's what hors do. Well, sure it is. But don't we teach guys to spin plates too?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You know what's REALLY overrated? YOUR POSTING.backbreaker said:
You've worn out your welcome. I really wish the mods saw it the same way.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
The episode where George decided to do the opposite of his instincts is a great one. He sees an attractive woman, then marches up to her to say 'Hi, I'm George. I'm 37, unemployed, and live with my mother.' And then the woman is all over him.
I think there's some wisdom in that scene, relating to the attractiveness of not being outcome-dependent, as well as the idea that many natural instincts are self-limiting beliefs.
I think there's some wisdom in that scene, relating to the attractiveness of not being outcome-dependent, as well as the idea that many natural instincts are self-limiting beliefs.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
what TV show is that sienfield?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
yep
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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George's belief is if every instinct in his life has been wrong up to that point, the opposite must be right.
Classic episode.
Classic episode.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Festivus: the holiday for the rest of us, where we gather around the Festivus Pole for the annual Airing of Grievances.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear BSquared,
"i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future".....A response worthy of a Lord, I am impressed!....Without a Doubt your lovely English Rose is having a positive influence on you Back Breaker...good for her!
"i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future".....A response worthy of a Lord, I am impressed!....Without a Doubt your lovely English Rose is having a positive influence on you Back Breaker...good for her!