"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Honesty is overrated

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logicallefty said:
lol A friend of mine who is an attorney always says "It's only dishonest when you give false information. Giving them only part of the information, so long as what you do give them is true, is still considered honesty".

Works pretty well for him in the courtroom. I see no problem in applying it to women also.
Another rep. People don't understand how beneficial it is to just keep their mouth shut.

I see guys saying that's what hors do. Well, sure it is. But don't we teach guys to spin plates too?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backbreaker said:
fvck honesty
You know what's REALLY overrated? YOUR POSTING.

You've worn out your welcome. I really wish the mods saw it the same way.
 

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The episode where George decided to do the opposite of his instincts is a great one. He sees an attractive woman, then marches up to her to say 'Hi, I'm George. I'm 37, unemployed, and live with my mother.' And then the woman is all over him.

I think there's some wisdom in that scene, relating to the attractiveness of not being outcome-dependent, as well as the idea that many natural instincts are self-limiting beliefs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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George's belief is if every instinct in his life has been wrong up to that point, the opposite must be right.

Classic episode.
 

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Dear BSquared,
"i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future".....A response worthy of a Lord, I am impressed!....Without a Doubt your lovely English Rose is having a positive influence on you Back Breaker...good for her!
 
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