speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Another rep. People don't understand how beneficial it is to just keep their mouth shut.logicallefty said:
I see guys saying that's what hors do. Well, sure it is. But don't we teach guys to spin plates too?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Honesty is overrated
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I see guys saying that's what hors do. Well, sure it is. But don't we teach guys to spin plates too?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You know what's REALLY overrated? YOUR POSTING.backbreaker said:
You've worn out your welcome. I really wish the mods saw it the same way.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
The episode where George decided to do the opposite of his instincts is a great one. He sees an attractive woman, then marches up to her to say 'Hi, I'm George. I'm 37, unemployed, and live with my mother.' And then the woman is all over him.
I think there's some wisdom in that scene, relating to the attractiveness of not being outcome-dependent, as well as the idea that many natural instincts are self-limiting beliefs.
I think there's some wisdom in that scene, relating to the attractiveness of not being outcome-dependent, as well as the idea that many natural instincts are self-limiting beliefs.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
what TV show is that sienfield?
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
yep
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cordoncordon
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George's belief is if every instinct in his life has been wrong up to that point, the opposite must be right.
Classic episode.
Classic episode.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Festivus: the holiday for the rest of us, where we gather around the Festivus Pole for the annual Airing of Grievances.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear BSquared,
"i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future".....A response worthy of a Lord, I am impressed!....Without a Doubt your lovely English Rose is having a positive influence on you Back Breaker...good for her!
"i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future".....A response worthy of a Lord, I am impressed!....Without a Doubt your lovely English Rose is having a positive influence on you Back Breaker...good for her!