backbreaker
Master Don Juan
fvck honesty
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Honesty is overrated
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
logicallefty
Moderator
lol A friend of mine who is an attorney always says "It's only dishonest when you give false information. Giving them only part of the information, so long as what you do give them is true, is still considered honesty".
Works pretty well for him in the courtroom. I see no problem in applying it to women also.
Works pretty well for him in the courtroom. I see no problem in applying it to women also.
MOTU
Master Don Juan
Perfect. Repped.logicallefty said:
Malcontent
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Isn't that the attitude of cheating wh0res though?
Boyfriend: Hey, I called you a few times last night and your phone kept going to voice mail. I thought you were coming over. I was worried. What happened?
H0r: Sorry babe. I ended up staying at my Mom's house last night. I should have let you know.
Truth: Mom is out of town and some dude came over there and rammed me on my childhood bed for hours. We did it every which way and he finished in my mouth. I should have let you know, but why the f--k would I volunteer that very pertinent info? After all, I'm a nasty cvnt and I will just keep deceiving you as long as possible.
Boyfriend: Hey, I called you a few times last night and your phone kept going to voice mail. I thought you were coming over. I was worried. What happened?
H0r: Sorry babe. I ended up staying at my Mom's house last night. I should have let you know.
Truth: Mom is out of town and some dude came over there and rammed me on my childhood bed for hours. We did it every which way and he finished in my mouth. I should have let you know, but why the f--k would I volunteer that very pertinent info? After all, I'm a nasty cvnt and I will just keep deceiving you as long as possible.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
LOL, the man has a point!Malcontent said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
B
BeDJ
Guest
Uhhhh....
Stop making assumptions. A lot of times, I don't respond to texts or phone calls even though I am VERY interested. It happens. To draw up conclusions is simply stupidity. There will be a parade saying if a chick is interested in you, she will respond within 6.34256767 minutes and if she responds in 6.7 minutes, she has low interest. Take what you will, but if you are putting yourself out there and creating opportunities to meet new women, there aren't any rules to follow.
Stop making assumptions. A lot of times, I don't respond to texts or phone calls even though I am VERY interested. It happens. To draw up conclusions is simply stupidity. There will be a parade saying if a chick is interested in you, she will respond within 6.34256767 minutes and if she responds in 6.7 minutes, she has low interest. Take what you will, but if you are putting yourself out there and creating opportunities to meet new women, there aren't any rules to follow.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear B squared,
"Honesty is overstated".....Very much so,use it on Women and you make a rod for your own back!
"Honesty is overstated".....Very much so,use it on Women and you make a rod for your own back!
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
What happened now BB? lolbackbreaker said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
That reminds me of the movie quote, "The truth? You CAN'T HANDLE the truth!"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
VikingKing
Banned
I used to be really honest, I was raised that way. But people can and defintley will take advantage of it.
It's better to just give people very little information, or just lie. Or if they make a guess, just say "yeah" (as long as it's beneficial for you to confirm there guess)
We live in a cut throat, dog-eat-dog world.
It's better to just give people very little information, or just lie. Or if they make a guess, just say "yeah" (as long as it's beneficial for you to confirm there guess)
We live in a cut throat, dog-eat-dog world.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
This is like one of those Facebook statuses where it's just very vague and a desperate call for attention. Say it isn't so!
BB, you gotta let us know what's going on and why this topic. You can't just come in here and drop something like that and then peace out.
BB, you gotta let us know what's going on and why this topic. You can't just come in here and drop something like that and then peace out.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
nothing to do with my wife whatsoever. a client
i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future
nothing i can't handle. But it just reminds me how much bull**** our society is. "Be honest, communicate" bull**** bull**** bull****. tell people what they want to hear and make them feel good.
i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future
nothing i can't handle. But it just reminds me how much bull**** our society is. "Be honest, communicate" bull**** bull**** bull****. tell people what they want to hear and make them feel good.
Bokanovsky
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I am fully convinced that backbreaker is bipolar. One day he writes something that might have as well been written by Beyonce (if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it...)Kailex said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2149948&postcount=11
The next day he writes that "honesty is overrated". The guy needs a shrink, not this forum.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VikingKing
Banned
Well how much money did you lose, or time did you waste? Can't be that bad.backbreaker said:
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
about a week
cordoncordon
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BB but let's be honest here. Now let me say I am not making any judgement one way or the other, because quite frankly I know nothing about your business. But reviews of your business online are very very poor and full of people who say you were less than honest with them.
Dare I say is this the pot calling the kettle black (17 Media)? No racist. I mean you have had entire threads written about your lack of honesty on another site. Again, not making a judgement, but this is......odd.
http://www.the-mainboard.com/index....s-a-con-artist-thread-yet.93745/#post-4800876
http://www.bbb.org/arkansas/business-reviews/web-design/black-17-media-in-little-rock-ar-90209549
http://www.yellowpages.com/nationwide/mip/black-17-media-inc-260649
Dare I say is this the pot calling the kettle black (17 Media)? No racist. I mean you have had entire threads written about your lack of honesty on another site. Again, not making a judgement, but this is......odd.
http://www.the-mainboard.com/index....s-a-con-artist-thread-yet.93745/#post-4800876
http://www.bbb.org/arkansas/business-reviews/web-design/black-17-media-in-little-rock-ar-90209549
http://www.yellowpages.com/nationwide/mip/black-17-media-inc-260649
SgtSplacker
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I never make claims to be honest to anyone. I feel that if your intentions are good then the means are justified. And that's the best thing you can do for the world.
The whole honestly thing gets abused too often, it really doesn't make sense to me if the result of the honesty in question is hurtful and benefits nobody. Not only that, but many times you simply do not know what is really going on in some cases. So opening your mouth might give an incorrect impression. And things heard from a third person tend to be taken for the truth and rarely thoughtfully considered.
I've seen this thing women like to do where they will say any hurtful thing they want to you then tell you it's because they are so brutally honest like as if that was a virtue.
Honesty without conscience is worthless...
The whole honestly thing gets abused too often, it really doesn't make sense to me if the result of the honesty in question is hurtful and benefits nobody. Not only that, but many times you simply do not know what is really going on in some cases. So opening your mouth might give an incorrect impression. And things heard from a third person tend to be taken for the truth and rarely thoughtfully considered.
I've seen this thing women like to do where they will say any hurtful thing they want to you then tell you it's because they are so brutally honest like as if that was a virtue.
Honesty without conscience is worthless...
I work in corporate america now. Honest people get metaphorically killed here. You need to read up on powertalk.backbreaker said:
http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.