"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Honesty is overrated

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol A friend of mine who is an attorney always says "It's only dishonest when you give false information. Giving them only part of the information, so long as what you do give them is true, is still considered honesty".

Works pretty well for him in the courtroom. I see no problem in applying it to women also.
 

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logicallefty said:
lol A friend of mine who is an attorney always says "It's only dishonest when you give false information. Giving them only part of the information, so long as what you do give them is true, is still considered honesty".

Works pretty well for him in the courtroom. I see no problem in applying it to women also.
Perfect. Repped.
 

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Isn't that the attitude of cheating wh0res though?

Boyfriend: Hey, I called you a few times last night and your phone kept going to voice mail. I thought you were coming over. I was worried. What happened?
H0r: Sorry babe. I ended up staying at my Mom's house last night. I should have let you know.

Truth: Mom is out of town and some dude came over there and rammed me on my childhood bed for hours. We did it every which way and he finished in my mouth. I should have let you know, but why the f--k would I volunteer that very pertinent info? After all, I'm a nasty cvnt and I will just keep deceiving you as long as possible.
 

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Malcontent said:
Isn't that the attitude of cheating wh0res though?

Boyfriend: Hey, I called you a few times last night and your phone kept going to voice mail. I thought you were coming over. I was worried. What happened?
H0r: Sorry babe. I ended up staying at my Mom's house last night. I should have let you know.

Truth: Mom is out of town and some dude came over there and rammed me on my childhood bed for hours. We did it every which way and he finished in my mouth. I should have let you know, but why the f--k would I volunteer that very pertinent info? After all, I'm a nasty cvnt and I will just keep deceiving you as long as possible.
LOL, the man has a point!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Uhhhh....

Stop making assumptions. A lot of times, I don't respond to texts or phone calls even though I am VERY interested. It happens. To draw up conclusions is simply stupidity. There will be a parade saying if a chick is interested in you, she will respond within 6.34256767 minutes and if she responds in 6.7 minutes, she has low interest. Take what you will, but if you are putting yourself out there and creating opportunities to meet new women, there aren't any rules to follow.
 

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Dear B squared,
"Honesty is overstated".....Very much so,use it on Women and you make a rod for your own back!
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I used to be really honest, I was raised that way. But people can and defintley will take advantage of it.

It's better to just give people very little information, or just lie. Or if they make a guess, just say "yeah" (as long as it's beneficial for you to confirm there guess)

We live in a cut throat, dog-eat-dog world.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Cheating hor wife?
Yah I was wondering the same thing. OLE BB has been eyeing up other women a lot lately. Maybe he's not getting any? Maybe BB stands for beta bucks? I dunno. Where is this coming from?
 

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This is like one of those Facebook statuses where it's just very vague and a desperate call for attention. Say it isn't so!

BB, you gotta let us know what's going on and why this topic. You can't just come in here and drop something like that and then peace out.
 

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nothing to do with my wife whatsoever. a client


i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future


nothing i can't handle. But it just reminds me how much bull**** our society is. "Be honest, communicate" bull**** bull**** bull****. tell people what they want to hear and make them feel good.
 

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Kailex said:
This is like one of those Facebook statuses where it's just very vague and a desperate call for attention. Say it isn't so!

BB, you gotta let us know what's going on and why this topic. You can't just come in here and drop something like that and then peace out.
I am fully convinced that backbreaker is bipolar. One day he writes something that might have as well been written by Beyonce (if you liked it then you should have put a ring on it...)

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=2149948&postcount=11

The next day he writes that "honesty is overrated". The guy needs a shrink, not this forum.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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backbreaker said:
nothing to do with my wife whatsoever. a client


i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future


nothing i can't handle. But it just reminds me how much bull**** our society is. "Be honest, communicate" bull**** bull**** bull****. tell people what they want to hear and make them feel good.
Well how much money did you lose, or time did you waste? Can't be that bad.
 

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BB but let's be honest here. Now let me say I am not making any judgement one way or the other, because quite frankly I know nothing about your business. But reviews of your business online are very very poor and full of people who say you were less than honest with them.


Dare I say is this the pot calling the kettle black (17 Media)? No racist. I mean you have had entire threads written about your lack of honesty on another site. Again, not making a judgement, but this is......odd.

http://www.the-mainboard.com/index....s-a-con-artist-thread-yet.93745/#post-4800876

http://www.bbb.org/arkansas/business-reviews/web-design/black-17-media-in-little-rock-ar-90209549

http://www.yellowpages.com/nationwide/mip/black-17-media-inc-260649
 

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I never make claims to be honest to anyone. I feel that if your intentions are good then the means are justified. And that's the best thing you can do for the world.

The whole honestly thing gets abused too often, it really doesn't make sense to me if the result of the honesty in question is hurtful and benefits nobody. Not only that, but many times you simply do not know what is really going on in some cases. So opening your mouth might give an incorrect impression. And things heard from a third person tend to be taken for the truth and rarely thoughtfully considered.

I've seen this thing women like to do where they will say any hurtful thing they want to you then tell you it's because they are so brutally honest like as if that was a virtue.

Honesty without conscience is worthless...
 

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backbreaker said:
nothing to do with my wife whatsoever. a client


i would ask that you refrain from calling my wife a hor please in the future


nothing i can't handle. But it just reminds me how much bull**** our society is. "Be honest, communicate" bull**** bull**** bull****. tell people what they want to hear and make them feel good.
I work in corporate america now. Honest people get metaphorically killed here. You need to read up on powertalk.

http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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