"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honestly, How Far Has Anyone On The Hs Board Gotten?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tomatoes
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I personally have had 11 diffrent girls in my life so far. A respectable number without looking like an easy man slag.
However 7 have been this year.
For those of you that remember my New Years resolution. 12 girls in 12 months. We are currently in month 8 (August). I still need to bed "Miss August". I have something set up for this weekend. Will FR it if its worth doing.
Sarge On!
Tomatoes
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you mean to say that you have never touched a girl?MrS said:Nothing, I'm in the army, not exactly the ideal place to pick up women..
But when I am let loose upon the masses, hoho, shagging a-plenty.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dannowillbookem
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Not extremely hard to believe.dannowillbookem said:16 people have hit the sexscene multiple times? come onnnn
It says 'had sex more than once' not, 'had sex with multiple people.'
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Helter Skelter
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When you hook up, what does that mean you did?
Please define
PeterNorthisawesome
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...Cmon "Master DJ" getting laid in HS is easy, just read the bible and use what you learned on the forums and you'll get poony in no time. Grabbin boobs and ass is flirting for me do it everyday to strangers...cmon guys you have to GET OUT and actually SARGE to get RESULTS. :nono:dannowillbookem said:16 people have hit the sexscene multiple times? come onnnn
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Havent done anything with a girl besides like, walking holding her hip next to me and arms linked or whatever... so i havent quite not touched a girl, but nothing more than that. And i pinched my chick friends boobs a few times because she hit me, so i just voted on the tit touch.
Theres ought to be a choice in between never touched a girl and tit grab..
can you define never touching? cause i mean normal kino and playful hitting is touching
Patrick124
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and i've had sex. multiple times.
my record is 5 times in 24 hours.
yeah, my c0ck was pretty tired. hahah
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the korsakoff is returning..
kissing a girl with tounge alsoHelter Skelter said:I left high school a long time ago.
When you hook up, what does that mean you did?
Please define
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.