"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honestly, How Far Has Anyone On The Hs Board Gotten?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
dannowillbookem
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tomatoes
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I personally have had 11 diffrent girls in my life so far. A respectable number without looking like an easy man slag.
However 7 have been this year.
For those of you that remember my New Years resolution. 12 girls in 12 months. We are currently in month 8 (August). I still need to bed "Miss August". I have something set up for this weekend. Will FR it if its worth doing.
Sarge On!
Tomatoes
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you mean to say that you have never touched a girl?MrS said:Nothing, I'm in the army, not exactly the ideal place to pick up women..
But when I am let loose upon the masses, hoho, shagging a-plenty.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannowillbookem
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Not extremely hard to believe.dannowillbookem said:16 people have hit the sexscene multiple times? come onnnn
It says 'had sex more than once' not, 'had sex with multiple people.'
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Helter Skelter
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When you hook up, what does that mean you did?
Please define
PeterNorthisawesome
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...Cmon "Master DJ" getting laid in HS is easy, just read the bible and use what you learned on the forums and you'll get poony in no time. Grabbin boobs and ass is flirting for me do it everyday to strangers...cmon guys you have to GET OUT and actually SARGE to get RESULTS. :nono:dannowillbookem said:16 people have hit the sexscene multiple times? come onnnn
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Havent done anything with a girl besides like, walking holding her hip next to me and arms linked or whatever... so i havent quite not touched a girl, but nothing more than that. And i pinched my chick friends boobs a few times because she hit me, so i just voted on the tit touch.
Theres ought to be a choice in between never touched a girl and tit grab..
can you define never touching? cause i mean normal kino and playful hitting is touching
Patrick124
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and i've had sex. multiple times.
my record is 5 times in 24 hours.
yeah, my c0ck was pretty tired. hahah
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the korsakoff is returning..
kissing a girl with tounge alsoHelter Skelter said:I left high school a long time ago.
When you hook up, what does that mean you did?
Please define
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.