“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She says that looks matter. A lot. When looking for a guy to just fvck but she said in a relationship looks don’t matter much at all because she is looking for a genuine connection. So for all those horny badtards looking to fvck as many hotties as they can (I’m with you lol) keep shedding that fat, gaining muscle, and do whatever you can to increase your presentation
 

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You lost me at ‘honest talk with FWB’

Haha, but seriously...

1) invest $15/ year in a GQ subscription

2) wear a nice watch

3) invest in a good smelling, high quality cologne - Bleu de Chanel EDP is my signature scent

4) never go out looking like you just rolled out of bed
All that isn’t necessary if your fit and aesthetic with a good jaw line. Srs.
 

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What we think is attractive to women is often different than what women think is attractive to women. Catch my drift playa?
I know. That was my main thought to. Women are attracted to alpha male behavior. I still believe this and do think a ugly man who knows what he’s doing will beat a good looking chump. However why not make life easier and get the same results. And plus if you have looks plus good game it’s GAME OVER
 

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I know. That was my main thought to. Women are attracted to alpha male behavior. I still believe this and do think a ugly man who knows what he’s doing will beat a good looking chump. However why not make life easier and get the same results. And plus if you have looks plus good game it’s GAME OVER
100% a ugly guy with game will clean-up on a good looking dude with zero game. Its a fact. Game +looks+social and your killing it.
 

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I know. That was my main thought to. Women are attracted to alpha male behavior. I still believe this and do think a ugly man who knows what he’s doing will beat a good looking chump. However why not make life easier and get the same results. And plus if you have looks plus good game it’s GAME OVER
Lets label some of the tenants of "good game"...
 

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She says that looks matter. A lot. When looking for a guy to just fvck but she said in a relationship looks don’t matter much at all because she is looking for a genuine connection. So for all those horny badtards looking to fvck as many hotties as they can (I’m with you lol) keep shedding that fat, gaining muscle, and do whatever you can to increase your presentation
The dual dating strategy in action. Sex from the hot guy, resources from the simp.
 

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You lost me at ‘honest talk with FWB’

Haha, but seriously...

1) invest $15/ year in a GQ subscription

2) wear a nice watch

3) invest in a good smelling, high quality cologne - Bleu de Chanel EDP is my signature scent

4) never go out looking like you just rolled out of bed
+1

I never honest talk unless you include my Steve Harvey impersonation.
 

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She says that looks matter. A lot. When looking for a guy to just fvck but she said in a relationship looks don’t matter much at all because she is looking for a genuine connection. So for all those horny badtards looking to fvck as many hotties as they can (I’m with you lol) keep shedding that fat, gaining muscle, and do whatever you can to increase your presentation
She was honest saying looks matter a lot.

But she was bullsh!tting you saying "genuine connection" is what she looks for in a relationship.

By "genuine connection", she simply meant "security", mostly in terms of financial and material security. That's it.
 

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You lost me at ‘honest talk with FWB’

Haha, but seriously...

1) invest $15/ year in a GQ subscription

2) wear a nice watch

3) invest in a good smelling, high quality cologne - Bleu de Chanel EDP is my signature scent

4) never go out looking like you just rolled out of bed
A great cologne I have been wearing lately is Mankind...smells freaking amazing.
 

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She says that looks matter. A lot. When looking for a guy to just fvck but she said in a relationship looks don’t matter much at all because she is looking for a genuine connection. So for all those horny badtards looking to fvck as many hotties as they can (I’m with you lol) keep shedding that fat, gaining muscle, and do whatever you can to increase your presentation
thats what an ex told me after we broke up. She said that I was basically ltr material because I provided her with security and comfort. I didn’t want her anymore, i told her that I would only bang her and she said that she wouldn’t want me only for that because I’m not the type for that.

genuine Connection means BETA BUCKS that’s it. :D
I learned my lesson and I’m grateful that I didn’t waste my whole life being someones 2nd choice.
 

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thats what an ex told me after we broke up. She said that I was basically ltr material because I provided her with security and comfort. I didn’t want her anymore, i told her that I would only bang her and she said that she wouldn’t want me only for that because I’m not the type for that.

genuine Connection means BETA BUCKS that’s it. :D
I learned my lesson and I’m grateful that I didn’t waste my whole life being someones 2nd choice.
Have you ever been the "good d1ck" guy for females? Or were you always in the security and comfort position?
 

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100% a ugly guy with game will clean-up on a good looking dude with zero game. Its a fact. Game +looks+social and your killing it.
unfortunately , looks > game every time

if you do not take care of yourself , it is super unlikely that women will view you as attractive , no matter if you spit game at ultra pro levels

And I am talking here about the high tier women . With medium and bellow it is possible , yes
 

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no I wasn’t always in the security position but I wasn’t aware of these dynamics regardless on which side I was.
Id get back into the good d1ck position asap. Women will label you and force you to remain stuck.. You can be good d1ck man in a relationship too. Just make sure they are always putting out.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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unfortunately , looks > game every time

if you do not take care of yourself , it is super unlikely that women will view you as attractive , no matter if you spit game at ultra pro levels

And I am talking here about the high tier women . With medium and bellow it is possible , yes
"Ugly " guy who takes care of himself with game will beat handsome dude with no game who doesn't take care of himself.
 

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She says that looks matter. A lot. When looking for a guy to just fvck but she said in a relationship looks don’t matter much at all because she is looking for a genuine connection. So for all those horny badtards looking to fvck as many hotties as they can (I’m with you lol) keep shedding that fat, gaining muscle, and do whatever you can to increase your presentation
Looks do matter. Game matters. Mindset matters.

The fact is a lot of things matter when it comes to intergender dynamics. However, it is also it is highly circumstantial for women. A lot of factors go into play when they consider a man for either sex or LTR and it all depends on her circumstances.

Modern Man Advice
 

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Have you ever been the "good d1ck" guy for females? Or were you always in the security and comfort position?
You can be both in an LTR. I'd even venture to say that is grounds for an LTR for both parties. I like to lead with the Good Sex and build from there.
 
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