"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Homework and assignments.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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-What you did and said.
-Different environments.
-What went well.
-What would you improve.
-How you change things as you meet more and more women owing to the above.
Doesn't have to be complicated. Just go out, start meeting people and be honest with yourself about how well it's going.
RangerMIke
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My first advice is to not think about it as a 'game', meeting women as you go about living you life is just what happens. Don't think of this as an effort, live your life and, oh by the way, meet women.
There really is nothing special about what is called 'day game', be observant, approach women you are attracted to, try to build rapport, ask for a number. Then go from there.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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This Thread is gold.
We should all have "homework/assignement" to improve ourselves. (Approach, plate, game, lms)
Sure don't see it as homework. The "game" is suppose to be fun.
However, see it has necessary to become a better version, to become a DJ.
I am currently doing a routine.. I call it routine of success. It's to make me disciplined, progress in my studies, develop my business, build my health (shape/cardio), and deal better with life stress.
In my routine, I should insert a 20minute talking to random people/friends (anything outside of business development and all geared towards social interaction improvement including pickup).
One advice for routine/homework/assignement: Start SLOW.
Start slowing and build up progress... this way you'll get it in your brain/body an habit also you will have energy and more motivation to succeed at it.
Why? Going too strong will exhaust you fast and kill your willpower since you won't see "progress" ...
Consider life a marathon.. In marathon... you go slow and as you get nearer to the finish... you speed