"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Homework and assignments.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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-What you did and said.
-Different environments.
-What went well.
-What would you improve.
-How you change things as you meet more and more women owing to the above.
Doesn't have to be complicated. Just go out, start meeting people and be honest with yourself about how well it's going.
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My first advice is to not think about it as a 'game', meeting women as you go about living you life is just what happens. Don't think of this as an effort, live your life and, oh by the way, meet women.
There really is nothing special about what is called 'day game', be observant, approach women you are attracted to, try to build rapport, ask for a number. Then go from there.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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This Thread is gold.
We should all have "homework/assignement" to improve ourselves. (Approach, plate, game, lms)
Sure don't see it as homework. The "game" is suppose to be fun.
However, see it has necessary to become a better version, to become a DJ.
I am currently doing a routine.. I call it routine of success. It's to make me disciplined, progress in my studies, develop my business, build my health (shape/cardio), and deal better with life stress.
In my routine, I should insert a 20minute talking to random people/friends (anything outside of business development and all geared towards social interaction improvement including pickup).
One advice for routine/homework/assignement: Start SLOW.
Start slowing and build up progress... this way you'll get it in your brain/body an habit also you will have energy and more motivation to succeed at it.
Why? Going too strong will exhaust you fast and kill your willpower since you won't see "progress" ...
Consider life a marathon.. In marathon... you go slow and as you get nearer to the finish... you speed