"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Homework and assignments.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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-What you did and said.
-Different environments.
-What went well.
-What would you improve.
-How you change things as you meet more and more women owing to the above.
Doesn't have to be complicated. Just go out, start meeting people and be honest with yourself about how well it's going.
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My first advice is to not think about it as a 'game', meeting women as you go about living you life is just what happens. Don't think of this as an effort, live your life and, oh by the way, meet women.
There really is nothing special about what is called 'day game', be observant, approach women you are attracted to, try to build rapport, ask for a number. Then go from there.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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This Thread is gold.
We should all have "homework/assignement" to improve ourselves. (Approach, plate, game, lms)
Sure don't see it as homework. The "game" is suppose to be fun.
However, see it has necessary to become a better version, to become a DJ.
I am currently doing a routine.. I call it routine of success. It's to make me disciplined, progress in my studies, develop my business, build my health (shape/cardio), and deal better with life stress.
In my routine, I should insert a 20minute talking to random people/friends (anything outside of business development and all geared towards social interaction improvement including pickup).
One advice for routine/homework/assignement: Start SLOW.
Start slowing and build up progress... this way you'll get it in your brain/body an habit also you will have energy and more motivation to succeed at it.
Why? Going too strong will exhaust you fast and kill your willpower since you won't see "progress" ...
Consider life a marathon.. In marathon... you go slow and as you get nearer to the finish... you speed