I was walking through an underpass with my girlfriend in arm and the homeless man who sleeps there said, ' hey that's a nice girlfriend, treat her right, she's the best you're ever going to do. ever ever ever' then he continued to say the word ever repeatedly as I walked away. We both laughed but it didn't feel right to me. He was probably right but even so. Was it some kind of insult?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
homeless man heckled me
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RedScorpion
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He’s a homeless person. As well as someone you don’t know (emphasis on this part). Disregard random people’s idle comments, as they have no possibility of understanding you. Just by virtue of them not knowing you. A man is not made purely by appearances either.
Who cares what this random guy thinks?
Who cares what this random guy thinks?
R.U.G.
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Prob. just looking back on his own boulevard of broken dreams and life. I would had just wished him well and not had given it a second thought. After all, look at you, then look at him. Who's in a better position in life?
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
That was me under the bridge. I was just goofin' on ya, bro.
logicallefty
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I’ll be extremely polite and respectful to a homeless person on first meeting if they are to me. But I’m not gonna let them throw idle jabs like this at me. At that point I would have told the guy I’m on my way to steakhouse xyz so he should be sure to dig there in the dumpster tomorrow for my bone and fat scraps.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Mike32ct
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Plenty of homeless people have mental illness and/or drug issues, so I wouldn’t give what they say a second thought.
Just keep walking.
Just keep walking.
zekko
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Agree with this.
You definitely can't take what the guy was saying to heart. I'm sure he was wallowing in his own misery and was trying to project it on to you.
The guy definitely sounds unstable.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
He's projecting his own losery onto you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
