"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Homecoming question

crazyman11

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So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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redspicyflag

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Definitely go with a group.
Treat your date nice. This isn't like picking up a HB9.
Just be warm, fun and the life of the party!

oh and the dance?
Lead her. The dirty grinding stuff doesn't come at the beginning.
You gotta warm the car up first before ya drive it.

dancing bible
 

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crazyman11 said:
So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
I'm going through this now.

Call her. Talk. She'll start to call you more often...

Basically, go in with 100% attention and then dwindle that down.

Then Homceoming just turn it back up, BAM!

I just had a girlfriend show me some hiphop stuff lol.

It's not that hard to learn a few tricks.

Tell her about dinner the day before.
 

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Is there anything else i should do? I can't drive, so should we just meet at the place? Remember, this is my first time going to homecoming (i'm a jr.) and i don't want to forget anything
 

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I'm thinking about either meeting her at a restaurant that isn't too far from our school, and then going there or just meeting her there because her mom is strict, and she didn't mention she's going with me. So should i get her some flowers or something? I have a couple friends that i think are having dinners before homecoming, so should i join in with them?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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*definatly go with a group*

- yes go with your friends to dinner before the dance *or after*
- get your date ( i dono what its called ) a bracelet thing of flowers, so she can wear opposed to carry flowers, put it on for her too!
 

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Couldn't tell you about dates, as at my first and last homecoming this year, I went solo and just grinded with random chicks. And yeah, you don't really have to know how to dance, just grind with her. It's basically dry humping and it's what most people at my school do at dances.
 
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