"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Homecoming question

crazyman11

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So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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redspicyflag

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Definitely go with a group.
Treat your date nice. This isn't like picking up a HB9.
Just be warm, fun and the life of the party!

oh and the dance?
Lead her. The dirty grinding stuff doesn't come at the beginning.
You gotta warm the car up first before ya drive it.

dancing bible
 

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crazyman11 said:
So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
I'm going through this now.

Call her. Talk. She'll start to call you more often...

Basically, go in with 100% attention and then dwindle that down.

Then Homceoming just turn it back up, BAM!

I just had a girlfriend show me some hiphop stuff lol.

It's not that hard to learn a few tricks.

Tell her about dinner the day before.
 

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Is there anything else i should do? I can't drive, so should we just meet at the place? Remember, this is my first time going to homecoming (i'm a jr.) and i don't want to forget anything
 

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I'm thinking about either meeting her at a restaurant that isn't too far from our school, and then going there or just meeting her there because her mom is strict, and she didn't mention she's going with me. So should i get her some flowers or something? I have a couple friends that i think are having dinners before homecoming, so should i join in with them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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*definatly go with a group*

- yes go with your friends to dinner before the dance *or after*
- get your date ( i dono what its called ) a bracelet thing of flowers, so she can wear opposed to carry flowers, put it on for her too!
 

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Couldn't tell you about dates, as at my first and last homecoming this year, I went solo and just grinded with random chicks. And yeah, you don't really have to know how to dance, just grind with her. It's basically dry humping and it's what most people at my school do at dances.
 
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