"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Homecoming question

crazyman11

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So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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redspicyflag

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Definitely go with a group.
Treat your date nice. This isn't like picking up a HB9.
Just be warm, fun and the life of the party!

oh and the dance?
Lead her. The dirty grinding stuff doesn't come at the beginning.
You gotta warm the car up first before ya drive it.

dancing bible
 

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crazyman11 said:
So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
I'm going through this now.

Call her. Talk. She'll start to call you more often...

Basically, go in with 100% attention and then dwindle that down.

Then Homceoming just turn it back up, BAM!

I just had a girlfriend show me some hiphop stuff lol.

It's not that hard to learn a few tricks.

Tell her about dinner the day before.
 

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Is there anything else i should do? I can't drive, so should we just meet at the place? Remember, this is my first time going to homecoming (i'm a jr.) and i don't want to forget anything
 

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I'm thinking about either meeting her at a restaurant that isn't too far from our school, and then going there or just meeting her there because her mom is strict, and she didn't mention she's going with me. So should i get her some flowers or something? I have a couple friends that i think are having dinners before homecoming, so should i join in with them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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*definatly go with a group*

- yes go with your friends to dinner before the dance *or after*
- get your date ( i dono what its called ) a bracelet thing of flowers, so she can wear opposed to carry flowers, put it on for her too!
 

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Couldn't tell you about dates, as at my first and last homecoming this year, I went solo and just grinded with random chicks. And yeah, you don't really have to know how to dance, just grind with her. It's basically dry humping and it's what most people at my school do at dances.
 
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