"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Homecoming question

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So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Definitely go with a group.
Treat your date nice. This isn't like picking up a HB9.
Just be warm, fun and the life of the party!

oh and the dance?
Lead her. The dirty grinding stuff doesn't come at the beginning.
You gotta warm the car up first before ya drive it.

dancing bible
 
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crazyman11 said:
So i asked this girl to homecoming, she said yes. Now what? Do i just meet her at the dance? Do we have a dinner or something? I have a friend that is having a dinner with a couple people, and i was planning on asking her if we could join in. So gimme a walk through of homecoming anyone. Thanks in advance

Oh, ps. I can't really dance, and i'm not sure if she would be grinding, she's a pretty shy girl. But I CAN slow dance, and i DON'T care if i make a fool of myself. So any tips on dancing are welcome
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I'm going through this now.

Call her. Talk. She'll start to call you more often...

Basically, go in with 100% attention and then dwindle that down.

Then Homceoming just turn it back up, BAM!

I just had a girlfriend show me some hiphop stuff lol.

It's not that hard to learn a few tricks.

Tell her about dinner the day before.
 
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Is there anything else i should do? I can't drive, so should we just meet at the place? Remember, this is my first time going to homecoming (i'm a jr.) and i don't want to forget anything
 
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I'm thinking about either meeting her at a restaurant that isn't too far from our school, and then going there or just meeting her there because her mom is strict, and she didn't mention she's going with me. So should i get her some flowers or something? I have a couple friends that i think are having dinners before homecoming, so should i join in with them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*definatly go with a group*

- yes go with your friends to dinner before the dance *or after*
- get your date ( i dono what its called ) a bracelet thing of flowers, so she can wear opposed to carry flowers, put it on for her too!
 
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Couldn't tell you about dates, as at my first and last homecoming this year, I went solo and just grinded with random chicks. And yeah, you don't really have to know how to dance, just grind with her. It's basically dry humping and it's what most people at my school do at dances.
 
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