"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Homecoming Dance

Oni

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Im gonna be attending the homecoming dance for the first time this year. I was wondering if it'd be cool if i only slow dance with my date and nothing else. The rest of the time maybe just chillax or talk with ppl.

Also, are homecomings always formal? or is it based on the theme?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheDogg

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I feel like the homecoming expert now.

First off, you don't just want to slow dance with your date. Make sure you do this, but you want to do the famous penis rubbing dance.

I'm a terrible dancer, but i have the grinding move down...and that's all i do.

Believe me, you will be happy, and so will herman.
 

RaMar

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the fact that you only want to slow dance shows me that you've never tried a "fast dance" before and are embarassed to try. Believe you me, grinding is easy. There is nothing to it. Don't rule it out. You'll thank us later.
 

oakraiderz2

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You said chillax...where the f did you come up with that?? Is that a "cool" word??
 

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Check out my tip on homecoming and apply it to your situation with your date instead of some random chick
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oni

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Originally posted by wcknightjr
Check out my tip on homecoming and apply it to your situation with your date instead of some random chick
where?
 
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