DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
WTF is wrong with you people? What you do here is sick! This has nothing to do with this forum... Really, shame on some of you...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Because women go real easy on beta males don't they?DonJuanit0 said:WTF is wrong with you people? What you do here is sick! This has nothing to do with this forum... Really, shame on some of you...
Julius I see what you're saying here, and I too think she is tooting her own horn (or playing her own violin?) about the disease. But when you think about it, when she rides out into the street, you think anyone gives a sht what disease she has? no they just think "fat ugly" and that's that. Is it so wrong that she's venting and standing up for herself when there may not really be anyone else to stand up for her?Julius_Seizeher said:"A good deed which stares upon itself in the mirror turns to stone."
I am not unsympathetic to her condition, and I can take inspiration from her positive attitude as well. My problem is that it is SHE who is promoting HERSELF as a heroine, that's giving me the bad taste, know what I mean?
We are ashamed of your callousness. You should leave.katatonia said:Aww sorry Mr. White Knight did I hurt your girlfriend's feelings? Apologise to her for me.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Leave sosymp.net!? somoralistic.net? OMG never!Alle_Gory said:We are ashamed of your callousness. You should leave.
Then you will be kicked out.katatonia said:Leave sosymp.net!? somoralistic.net? OMG never!