DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
WTF is wrong with you people? What you do here is sick! This has nothing to do with this forum... Really, shame on some of you...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Holy sh1t.. who is she kidding?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Katatonia, you're just a bitter beta male, and are unleashing on a disabled woman because you feel you experienced the equivalent from women IRL.
We dont need your bitter ilk here, making fun of people in wheelchairs, Im embarrassed for you bud.
We dont need your bitter ilk here, making fun of people in wheelchairs, Im embarrassed for you bud.
Neurosponge
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Julius I see what you're saying here, and I too think she is tooting her own horn (or playing her own violin?) about the disease. But when you think about it, when she rides out into the street, you think anyone gives a sht what disease she has? no they just think "fat ugly" and that's that. Is it so wrong that she's venting and standing up for herself when there may not really be anyone else to stand up for her?Julius_Seizeher said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What you guys don't understand about this girl (and although I have some light on this because of an experience I had, even though I'll never totally understand it) is that her tooting her own horn is almost more therapeutic for her than it is meant to be inspirational for you.
Nobody here could imagine what it would be like to live in a body like that where you need to get in a motorized wheelchair everyday, but I think we could all agree that it would suck, and day after day it would wear down on you and take a toll. This girl has accepted the fact that her life needs to take on another meaning and make use of it in other ways than most (ie, no relationships, no children, and believe me there are many more things she can't do).
So she's made a website to try to inspire people (for example pathetic guys who can't even muster the courage to talk to a girl) to live their lives to the fullest especially since they have it better than her. But while doing so, it also helps give HER INTERNALLY the feeling that she is useful and making the most out of the cards she's been dealt in life.
She has a condition that ISN'T going to ever get better, so she's accepted that and taken actions to make the most of it, and give her a little sanity.
Conclusion
I think it's ridiculous that this thread has gotten so many replies, but it did. But since there are so many, meaning others will read, I hope that what you take from this thread isn't making fun of this girl, or "Gee I'm lucky I'm not in a wheelchair".
What you need to take is realizing that most us are here to get good at girls. That is SO UNIMPORTANT AND MINISCULE compared to other cr*p in the world, GO DO IT. If that girl had a chance to be you for a day, she would LIVE LIKE SHE WAS DIEING. So go talk to the HB 9 across the room, go for the number, close.
By doing this not only do you fulfill yourself in ways that can't be expressed in words, but you give someone like her the satisfaction of having her dream come true, that SHE ACTUALLY DID INSPIRE SOMEONE. That makes her life worth it beyond measure.
Nobody here could imagine what it would be like to live in a body like that where you need to get in a motorized wheelchair everyday, but I think we could all agree that it would suck, and day after day it would wear down on you and take a toll. This girl has accepted the fact that her life needs to take on another meaning and make use of it in other ways than most (ie, no relationships, no children, and believe me there are many more things she can't do).
So she's made a website to try to inspire people (for example pathetic guys who can't even muster the courage to talk to a girl) to live their lives to the fullest especially since they have it better than her. But while doing so, it also helps give HER INTERNALLY the feeling that she is useful and making the most out of the cards she's been dealt in life.
She has a condition that ISN'T going to ever get better, so she's accepted that and taken actions to make the most of it, and give her a little sanity.
Conclusion
I think it's ridiculous that this thread has gotten so many replies, but it did. But since there are so many, meaning others will read, I hope that what you take from this thread isn't making fun of this girl, or "Gee I'm lucky I'm not in a wheelchair".
What you need to take is realizing that most us are here to get good at girls. That is SO UNIMPORTANT AND MINISCULE compared to other cr*p in the world, GO DO IT. If that girl had a chance to be you for a day, she would LIVE LIKE SHE WAS DIEING. So go talk to the HB 9 across the room, go for the number, close.
By doing this not only do you fulfill yourself in ways that can't be expressed in words, but you give someone like her the satisfaction of having her dream come true, that SHE ACTUALLY DID INSPIRE SOMEONE. That makes her life worth it beyond measure.
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