DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
WTF is wrong with you people? What you do here is sick! This has nothing to do with this forum... Really, shame on some of you...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Holy sh1t.. who is she kidding?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Katatonia, you're just a bitter beta male, and are unleashing on a disabled woman because you feel you experienced the equivalent from women IRL.
We dont need your bitter ilk here, making fun of people in wheelchairs, Im embarrassed for you bud.
We dont need your bitter ilk here, making fun of people in wheelchairs, Im embarrassed for you bud.
Neurosponge
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Julius I see what you're saying here, and I too think she is tooting her own horn (or playing her own violin?) about the disease. But when you think about it, when she rides out into the street, you think anyone gives a sht what disease she has? no they just think "fat ugly" and that's that. Is it so wrong that she's venting and standing up for herself when there may not really be anyone else to stand up for her?Julius_Seizeher said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What you guys don't understand about this girl (and although I have some light on this because of an experience I had, even though I'll never totally understand it) is that her tooting her own horn is almost more therapeutic for her than it is meant to be inspirational for you.
Nobody here could imagine what it would be like to live in a body like that where you need to get in a motorized wheelchair everyday, but I think we could all agree that it would suck, and day after day it would wear down on you and take a toll. This girl has accepted the fact that her life needs to take on another meaning and make use of it in other ways than most (ie, no relationships, no children, and believe me there are many more things she can't do).
So she's made a website to try to inspire people (for example pathetic guys who can't even muster the courage to talk to a girl) to live their lives to the fullest especially since they have it better than her. But while doing so, it also helps give HER INTERNALLY the feeling that she is useful and making the most out of the cards she's been dealt in life.
She has a condition that ISN'T going to ever get better, so she's accepted that and taken actions to make the most of it, and give her a little sanity.
Conclusion
I think it's ridiculous that this thread has gotten so many replies, but it did. But since there are so many, meaning others will read, I hope that what you take from this thread isn't making fun of this girl, or "Gee I'm lucky I'm not in a wheelchair".
What you need to take is realizing that most us are here to get good at girls. That is SO UNIMPORTANT AND MINISCULE compared to other cr*p in the world, GO DO IT. If that girl had a chance to be you for a day, she would LIVE LIKE SHE WAS DIEING. So go talk to the HB 9 across the room, go for the number, close.
By doing this not only do you fulfill yourself in ways that can't be expressed in words, but you give someone like her the satisfaction of having her dream come true, that SHE ACTUALLY DID INSPIRE SOMEONE. That makes her life worth it beyond measure.
Nobody here could imagine what it would be like to live in a body like that where you need to get in a motorized wheelchair everyday, but I think we could all agree that it would suck, and day after day it would wear down on you and take a toll. This girl has accepted the fact that her life needs to take on another meaning and make use of it in other ways than most (ie, no relationships, no children, and believe me there are many more things she can't do).
So she's made a website to try to inspire people (for example pathetic guys who can't even muster the courage to talk to a girl) to live their lives to the fullest especially since they have it better than her. But while doing so, it also helps give HER INTERNALLY the feeling that she is useful and making the most out of the cards she's been dealt in life.
She has a condition that ISN'T going to ever get better, so she's accepted that and taken actions to make the most of it, and give her a little sanity.
Conclusion
I think it's ridiculous that this thread has gotten so many replies, but it did. But since there are so many, meaning others will read, I hope that what you take from this thread isn't making fun of this girl, or "Gee I'm lucky I'm not in a wheelchair".
What you need to take is realizing that most us are here to get good at girls. That is SO UNIMPORTANT AND MINISCULE compared to other cr*p in the world, GO DO IT. If that girl had a chance to be you for a day, she would LIVE LIKE SHE WAS DIEING. So go talk to the HB 9 across the room, go for the number, close.
By doing this not only do you fulfill yourself in ways that can't be expressed in words, but you give someone like her the satisfaction of having her dream come true, that SHE ACTUALLY DID INSPIRE SOMEONE. That makes her life worth it beyond measure.
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